OH thinks I am being completely unreasonable. I am irritated.
PIL know DD(3) likes superheroes, various cartoons, ballet. They asked for vague ideas pre-christmas.
She was given a toy washing machine.
She did have other toys, but I am irritated that she has been given a domestic appliance toy that she didn't ask for and isn't related to any of her interests. The feminist aspect bothers me and I hate giving little girls domestic toys generally, but also the fact that they've not listened to her interests at all. Not to mention it's fairly large and we don't have space for it.
OH thinks taking away her toy will have a more negative impact on her, I think she won't even notice (I put it in the cupboard, it hasn't been asked for since.)