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To want to be able to book a basic haircut without all the faffing and blowdrying?

38 replies

AbsentmindedWoman · 14/12/2018 14:09

All salons I've been to seem to include at least half an hour of blow drying and styling. While I do think it's fun sometimes to have immaculately blow dried hair (say if I'm going for drinks or dinner, I'd appreciate the end result then) I don't enjoy the fussing and pulling and hauling at my head - I have sensory issues and fibromyalgia so sometimes it's really uncomfortable. I wish it was possible to just book a wash, trim and basic blow dry in order to get in and out as quickly as possible.

Would a barber do a no frills trim on my long hair?

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funnylittlefloozie · 14/12/2018 14:12

Thats called a wet cut at every hairdresser i have EVER been to, in the last 25 years. Have you ever considered asking your hairdresser to just, you know, NOT blow-dry your hair? Or are you continually booking expensive cut-and-finishes that you dont want????

TotalBlamBlam · 14/12/2018 14:13

Just ask for a wet cut. No faffing involved.

Thehop · 14/12/2018 14:14

Ask for a wet cut.

Loftyswops988 · 14/12/2018 14:15

Just ask for a wet cut? I always just have a dry cut and have done my whole life due to sensory issues. Much easier!

whatswithtodaytoday · 14/12/2018 14:15

It's called a rough dry where I go. They just give it a quick blast to get it dry, no styling.

AbsentmindedWoman · 14/12/2018 14:15

I've not seen a wet cut on any salon menu before? And I do always stop them using hair straighteners or tongs. But they seem reluctant to let you out unless you have perfect waves or silky straight perfectly done hair.

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Swipetounlock · 14/12/2018 14:16

You can also ask for a 'rough dry', this means the stylist will just tousle and lift your hair a bit with their hands as they use the drier, and not use a brush. Someplaces this is cheaper than a full cut and blowdry.

AbsentmindedWoman · 14/12/2018 14:16

Will have to ask for this wet cut then!!

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rememberatime · 14/12/2018 14:23

I go to a barber - they wet your hair (without washing it), cut it and then give it a quick once over with the blow-dryer if needed (my hair is short so that is rare). This costs me £12.95 :)

Swipetounlock · 14/12/2018 14:25

I think wet cut is for short hair. I don't think a reputable stylist would send someone out of their salon with long wet hair. Stylists do take professional pride in sending people out looking great, and I don't blame them.

GaraMedouar · 14/12/2018 14:25

I would book a dry cut, but wash my hair before I went and tie it back so it was still damp for the cut. I couldn't abide having my hair washed or blow dried.

I've since bought some scissors and cut my own hair (YouTube instructions). Saves me going at all now!

Birdsgottafly · 14/12/2018 14:31

As said, that's a wet cut.

Or you can go with it already wet and have a rough dry.

If you explain to the hairdresser, they'll work around what you need.

Bestseller · 14/12/2018 14:31

Fancy salons seem to automatically include a "finish " with every haircut. A corner shop hairdresser will do a wet cut.

Usually they do blast it with the hairdryer a bit, you don't get sent out with dripping hair.

GrannyJillS · 14/12/2018 14:37

I have very curly long hair. I don't dry it at home and never have it dried at the hairdresser, ever. I have never looked to see if it's on a price list - I just tell them what I want.

knittedmouse · 14/12/2018 14:38

Stylists do take professional pride in sending people out looking great, and I don't blame them.

A decent stylist should be able to meet the needs of the client. If they want to leave the salon with a simple dry that's up to them because it's their hair.

sar302 · 14/12/2018 14:46

They're reluctant, because they can charge you more for the privilege of drying your hair, than just a wet cut. I always rewash my hair at home afterwards, to get rid of those little tiny annoying bits, so it would be pointless to pay for styling.

Just ask for a wet cut and say "no" if they start waving dryers or tools by your head.

Andthatswhytheycallittheblues · 14/12/2018 14:46

If you get your hair cut it's hardly likely to still be dripping wet ✂️

Fatted · 14/12/2018 14:49

Just go for a dry trim.

Waddsup12 · 14/12/2018 14:52

Yep, I have a mobile hairdresser. Comes, trims hair, gone in 10 mins, £5. Love her to bits.

But if I ventured into a salon, wet cut only. My days of having hair looking like a rugby ball (hair not good with heat) are gone.

AbsentmindedWoman · 14/12/2018 14:54

Yeah, I understand they wouldn't like to send anyone out with long dripping hair. I think a rough (but gentle!) dry is what I'd prefer.

I hate all the tight winding of the hair round a brush and pulling taut, and blasting with insane amounts of heat. At home I only give my whole head a quick couple minutes with the hairdryer, then tie it back when still damp to let it finish drying.

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nickEcave · 14/12/2018 15:11

I had my first cut with a mobile hairdresser the other week and it was a revelation! I washed my hair before she arrived, it took 15 minutes to cut my shoulder length hair and she charged me £15. I'm in London and all the salons near me charge mimimun £40 for cut and finish and I always dislike the way they style it. I reckon I can get all my cuts for the year now for the price of a single cut and finish from my local salon.

VickyEadie · 14/12/2018 15:15

Wet cut in all the salons I've been going to, also. They wash it, then do a very basic dry on your hair afterwards.

A faffy style and blow dry is and always has been pointless for me - I wash my hair every, single morning.

tissuesosoft · 14/12/2018 15:17

I do a dry cut but wash it in the morning and leave it to dry naturally so it’s still damp when I go. They just spray it with abit of water, cut and rough dry

MissWilmottsGhost · 14/12/2018 15:26

I always used to get a wet cut, it's not just for short hair. Like PP I always wash it again when I get home so what's the point of paying for styling?

I also used to find that the salon would hide a bad cut by straightening my hair, then when I got home and washed it, it would go back to wavy and look shit.

My current Hairdresser does a rough blow dry and leaves it in natural waves, that is the way I wear it anyway, and I can see I am happy with the cut before I pay.

Now I just need to find a way to stop them doing that fucking horrible head massage shite when they wash my hair Angry

shouldwestayorshouldwego · 14/12/2018 15:31

MN haircut - one ponytail, pair of scissors, done!