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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

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MIL

61 replies

Housingcraze · 09/12/2018 09:37

Omg DP mum staying cause of day stay - general anaesthetic will be our off his system at 10am and she putting coats away tidying up stuff that doesn’t need tidying and last night put her show on without any consideration whether anyone else wanted to watch lol OMFG

Aibu for DP To say no or actually it’s not your place?

DP will want to watch football today at 2/3pm he not going to as his DM doesn’t like it - but it’s ok for DP to put up or being made to watch strictly come dancing in his home!!!

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paem · 09/12/2018 11:56

You're leaving out all the relevant stuff OP.

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Housingcraze · 09/12/2018 17:23

I don’t live with DP
I can’t drive to and from hospital
Only been together a year
I’m recovering from sepsis
We both 40’s
Not financially involved it’s DP own house
DP had a endoscopy under GA as every time - he had one under sedation he pulled out tube!
DP as a child suffered severe vomiting during GA!

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recovery18 · 09/12/2018 19:45

So he is just a boyfriend you have been with for about a year. She is not your MIL.

What does anything your boyfriends mother does in his house have to do with you? If he doesn't like it he can tell her. You should keep your beak out.

Moussemoose · 09/12/2018 20:30

So you are a guest in the house as well?

GreatDuckCookery6211 · 09/12/2018 20:33

She's not your "MIL" then is she?
You need to keep your beak out I'm afraid.
None of this is your business!

Elfontheshelfiswatchingyoutoo · 09/12/2018 20:46

AtilA has the crux there.

It's not help if it's not asked for or wanted.

Having said that there is nothing too bad in this post. How long is she staying....

helacells · 09/12/2018 20:48

Wow show some bloody respect!

Elfontheshelfiswatchingyoutoo · 09/12/2018 20:52

AtilA what your describing has happened to us.

My dm went about things from very different meaning than Mil does.

BunsOfAnarchy · 09/12/2018 22:11

YOU DONT EVEN LIVE THERE!!!!!!

FUCKING TAKING THE BASTARD PACKET OF BISCUITS YOU ARE LOVE!!!

MyOtherProfile · 10/12/2018 04:00

Wow spectacular drip feed! So not your home- you are complaining about nothing.

EmUntitled · 10/12/2018 05:50

If you don't like it, go back to your house and watch the tv you want to watch. Even if it was your house I'd say you are unresonable- it's 2 days of your life and realistically it sounds like she is just trying to be helpful while probably being a boy worried about her son and also feeling uncomfortable with his girlfriend there watching her every move.

She's not allowed to tidy up and shes not allowed to sit and relax/ watch TV. What is she allowed to do?

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