Hey all, in sorry if this is tmi but I really need some advice ( especially from a man's point of view). So my husband watches porn, i dont know how much or the frequency. I personaly don't like porn. I asked him some years ago to stop because it was upsetting me and he didn't he carried on behind my back which hurt alot. So I had a good think and I realised it was more the secrecy of him doing it than the actual porn so I asked him some time ago to just be straight with me when he was watching porn. Like if I'm away somewhere if he could just said me a text saying "I'm gonna have some man time" and then not delete the evidence from his history. Not that I'm going to look at his history but just knowing it's there and it's out in the open and not some dirty secret in our marriage made me feel better about it all but he hasn't stuck to that either. He still lies about it and covers it up. Am I being unreasonable? Im not asking him to inform me every time he masturbates just when there is porn involved. Thank you