My friend has commandeered my spare room!

[Nutmeggy]

Hi,

Possibly over reacting but a bit hacked off.

Friend of mine asked for a big favour last week and foolishly I said yes what is it.

She has a friend coming over to stay she said but no where for them to sleep as her sofa is already taken with another friend.

Reluctantly I agreed though have not met her friend before.

She bought her round just now, both quite merry and asked me to show her friend how tv works etc, ok, now she has left and this random friend has said she didn't realise she would be staying at mine and it was a surprise to her.

It's 8pm on a Sunday night and I have to entertain a slightly pissed stranger and make her dinner , a little annoyed by it all.

I'd offer dinner if , like me, you are nowhere near any sort of takeaway.
I would tell her that she has to be ready to leave when you do tho. I wouldn't leave her in my flat while I was out.

I wouldn't leave her alone in my house in the morning. You don't know her.

Must admit I'm struggling to sympathise. You could have said no last week when you were asked, and you've had several days since then to have second thoughts and withdraw your agreement. You could have clarified with your friend when visitor would be appearing, and you could have made it clear then that you were not offering dinner. You could also have clarified that visitor would have to be out of the house by the time you go to work. Your friend is a CF but you do seem to have lain down and allowed her to walk all over you.

This is so bizarre!

However, I would make friends with the new person and ditch the other one.

What happened op?