On the contrary I think it's GP's aren't living in the real world (and there's a prime example on another thread of one wanting to declare themselves bankrupt rather than pay their utility bills or give up nights out, expensive hairdressers & manicures!)
There's largely no need for long in depth consultations, there IS a need clearly for GP's to know how to take a history properly and NOT to dismiss what the patient says when giving that history. If THAT happened fewer patients would need to be making repeated appointments for the SAME condition just to get a Dx & treatment. If patients weren't needing to book multiple appointments UNNECESSARILY because GP's aren't getting it right, then there'd be more available.
This is NOT even Swedish levels of primary care, this is levels of primary care we used to get and should still be able to get in the nhs.
As for "people start taking responsibility for their own health"
Endometriosis isn't caused by poor self care.
OCD isn't caused by poor self care
Asthma isn't caused by poor self care.
Allergies including to medications aren't caused by poor self care
Not all cancers are caused by poor self care many are in patients with a genetic predisposition
Ovarian torsion isn't caused by poor self care
Pcos isn't caused by poor self care
Type 1 diabetes not caused by poor self care.
And actually even conditions where self care is a FACTOR it isn't the whole story, if it were then EVERYONE who is overweight, smokes, drinks too much, doesn't exercise regularly would get them and they don't. There's other factors.
In addition a GP's in fact any HCP's job is NOT to judge but to treat the patient WITHOUT prejudice.
And frankly given the number of GP's I've seen who are far more overweight than I AND I can smell and see signs that they are heavy smokers & drinkers too, it's hypocritical!
According to bmi I'm overweight, which I'm repeatedly bagged about by GP's even though I've lost a significant amount and continue to lose which they don't notice even though I'm weighed regularly in relation to one of my medications. I'm also on 2 medications known to slow metabolism & increase appetite so I'm constantly resisting the urges caused by this. AND my bp, pulse, cholesterol etc are all well within healthy range, on the low side if anything. I'm vegetarian, try to cook healthily from scratch DESPITE a pain condition and severe MH issues, I'm teetotal as one of my meds you can't drink on as it massively increases the "drunk" effect, not that I've ever been a big drinker anyway I've been drunk twice in my entire life! And one of those was a dick mickeying my drink! I don't like the sensation and I've an alcoholic father has made me very wary.
I've never smoked a cigarette not even tried (asthma since childhood, vehemently anti smoking) never tried a street drug.
Until I was mid 30's and had a serious car accident I was a runner exercising 3-4 times a week. I was max size 8 until then too except when I was pregnant.
Out of my friends & family the people who mostly Go to the gp have genetic or work related conditions.
Type 1 diabetes, genetic cancers, asbestosis, back problems from not being provided the right training/equipment at work, endo, pcos, rheumatoid arthritis, Parkinson's, genetic heart conditions.