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Gotten?

93 replies

RTFT · 22/11/2018 17:33

I see this a lot on here but never hear it spoken....is this a new word or a regional thing?

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StoorieHoose · 22/11/2018 20:13

Nothing is wrong with them but the pedants on here don’t like them!

TwitterQueen1 · 22/11/2018 20:13

How sad and ridiculous to see so many ignorant statements here.

"..the language is ENGLISH". What we (English) might term 'English' comprises words from all over the world - Norse words, Indian, Latin, Welsh, Scottish, French - and many more.

"I dislike 'gotten' and would never use it" OK. Whatever. No need to judge those who do use it.

'there not their' - obviously depends on context. The individual words both belong in the English language, as do your and you're.

Can we not celebrate the richness of our language and embrace the different regional variations, which are NOT WRONG, just perhaps not in common usage.

BookMeOnTheSudExpress · 22/11/2018 20:15

Yes, examining boards and examiners accept "gotten" and other American usages. What's important is that the examinee is coherent and uses Americanisms throughout.

SenecaFalls · 22/11/2018 20:16

Well it's hardly surprising, is it, since the language is ENGLISH.

Yes, but there are different varieties of English. And as English is primarily a descriptive rather than a prescriptive language, people in England (or anywhere else, for that matter) don't have the final say about acceptable usage.

Katiepoes · 22/11/2018 20:18

oh ffs - BookMe it is NOT an Americanism!

SenecaFalls · 22/11/2018 20:22

"Fall" for autumn is another so called Americanism that is actually an older British form that went across the Atlantic in colonial times but that fell out of use in Britain.

BookMeOnTheSudExpress · 22/11/2018 20:34

I'm well aware of its origins (MAs in linguistics can be quite useful for that sort of thing) I was simply answering the question from a pp about whether British examining boards accept Americanisms (which "gotten" is, today, in 2018, defined as, a perfectly correct American usage with its origins, as eleventy billion pps have said, in the English taken over the pond by the first settlers) No need to "ffs" me. Save it for the ignorant little Englanders who always pop up on this kind of thread.

LaundryHepburn · 22/11/2018 20:39

It's from the same group of irregular verbs as wake/woke/woken, break/broke/broken, speak/spoke/spoken.

Queenofthedrivensnow · 22/11/2018 22:34

It's a very yank affectation but it's correct.

It used to make me wince but now none of them do except 'like' - nails on a blackboard that is.

TwitterQueen1 · 22/11/2018 22:40

"a yank affection" Wow. How rude. No, it's not.

naicepineapple · 22/11/2018 22:45

@BookMeOnTheSudExpress is there an official list of what is classed as an Americanism? It's widely used in Scotland, so is it a scottishism?

Queenofthedrivensnow · 22/11/2018 23:24

Lots of discussion on the thread that it fell out of use widely in England and returns here through American culture. Lots of American culture is seen as cool so these expressions are adopted.

Not quite as irritating as 'can I get?' Instead of 'May I have' which at best is quite rude.

ElainaElephant · 23/11/2018 04:31

It classed as archaic in some places in the UK, often by people that don't acknowledge that it has always been used in some areas of the UK.

I have often been told on here that it is an Americanism. Its fucking not. I have been saying it for over 40 years.

Birdsgottafly · 23/11/2018 04:50

I use gotten. My Grandmother did (born 1911), in Liverpool, her Parents were a mix of Lancashire and Irish.

Maggie Smith and Judi Dench have always used it, which is good enough for me.

I dispair in people who don't understand that language is fluid. We have many words at our disposal and it's upto the individual to decide what they use.

Are you German? Then why do you have a Christmas Tree? Because you've chosen to, because it isn't traditional to the UK.

LivLemler · 23/11/2018 04:53

Not quite as irritating as 'can I get?' Instead of 'May I have' which at best is quite rude.

Perfectly normal in Ireland, where it's not rude in the slightest.

shiveringtimber · 23/11/2018 05:04

I don't like "gotten". I don't use it.

Monty27 · 23/11/2018 05:48

I'm Irish and I use it. I don't know why folk think it's American.

shiveringtimber · 23/11/2018 05:55

It sounds terrible IMO. It doesn't matter if it's old English, "new" English, American, Scottish, Irish or whatever else you all come up with to justify that dreadful word. So there.

TheDowagerCuntess · 23/11/2018 05:57

This thread appears on here with regularity.

Pretty much all English-speaking countries, except England, use the word 'gotten'.

Sorry, but it's not going anywhere.

TheDowagerCuntess · 23/11/2018 05:59

It's a very yank affectation but it's correct.

How can it be a 'yank affectation' and 'correct'?

Americans took it with them. From England.

BookMeOnTheSudExpress · 23/11/2018 06:19

There are lots of lists of Americanisms- in terms of specific lexical items. Sidewalk, faucet etc.
As pps have said, the Bill Bryson book is a useful starting point to avoid making yourself look silly by complaining about language which is both older, and arguably more "correct", than many of the constructions in your own MN posts.

Monty27 · 23/11/2018 06:50

Yank? Grin
It's a proper word I cba to wiki it. Do it yourselves to quit the arguing.

WingMirrorSpider · 23/11/2018 06:59

I’m a bit of a language/grammar pedant but this doesn’t bother me at all. Surely it’s just the same as the forms of forget?

I forget
I forgot
I have forgotten

I have forgot just sounds wrong, so how come people don’t like ‘I have gotten’?

Monty27 · 23/11/2018 07:02

Good post @wing Smile

LaurieMarlow · 23/11/2018 07:04

Gotten is perfectly grammatical, so why on earth would it be penalised?

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