DD (12) asked for football boots for Games and football club a few month back. I bought some she picked out for 20 quid. They've been used precisely never. They still fit (I made her try them on to check the other night) but she still hasn't used them, despite reminders to pack them with her kit. She had football today at school and has come home with her trainers covered in mud and soaked through. AIBU to think Fuck it! If you're going to wreck your trainers and not use the boots on which I've clearly wasted my money then I'm having that money back? She has plenty of birthday money stashed away.