Snogging a family member.

[JustAskiing]

If your H (not mine) had a drunken snog and a bit of a grope with a female family member, and you forgave him, would you forgive her too?

Sister or mum? Run a fucking mile.

Christ almighty I would never forgive that

If my DH snogged his sister, mother or grandma I’d have far greater issues than deciding whether or not to forgive her....

It takes two to tango!

I assume you mean your family member, not his?

I would struggle to forgive either - it’s cheating and / or betrayal, and much worse for being family. But only you know what you can overcome and live with

I jest.

Not sure I would forgive either tbh, but if it was my sister, I'd be likely to forgive her before him.

Wut

Wtf?????

In answer to the last bit- anything you forgive him for you should forgive her for surely? They both participated

Who did you snog then?

They would be equally responsible!! Not one or the other!

I take it you don't mean his family member?
No, I wouldn't forgive it.

Wrong on every count, let alone be has cheated

Is it auntie/uncle? More information is needed

Sorry, she's married to his cousin, not blood related. Friend has forgiven her husband, but refuses full stop to even mention his cousin's name, only to slag her off.

Nope, wouldn't forgive either of them, game over.

Whose family member ? The mans or his wifes family member?
If his own that is gross and no question about anyone needing forgiveness more issues there.
If his wife's family member well then depends if you accept kissing as cheating drunk or not.

Ok just read ur update

Well that’s a bit less interesting

I was hoping for some sort of webbed feet warning

I suppose if you forgive one, you can't really hold a grudge with the other .. however I would never be forgiving either of them. Drunk or not.

Forgive? Relationship gone.

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Nope -not him or her.

Sorry, she's married to his cousin, not blood related. Friend has forgiven her husband, but refuses full stop to even mention his cousin's name, only to slag her off.

Up to her if she forgives her husband, it is their relationship. They may have children together, which makes throwing it all away for a snog harder.

Cousins wife, would drop in a heartbeat!

I agree with this, why would she have to forgive the cousins wife? Her husband and marriage is all that matters surely?

I'd divorce him