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Anyone been part of the shoebox appeal team?

37 replies

Disabrie22 · 17/11/2018 23:44

I’ve just made the usual charity shoe box appeal boxes with the children and I’m curious about who gets them and how the process of giving them out works? I know there’s various critiques but I remember someone coming on here who worked for them - but I can’t remember what they said. Anyone part of the process?

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WinterSpiceOnIce · 18/11/2018 00:07

No but which appeal was this? Not operation Christmas child was it?

gamerchick · 18/11/2018 00:16

Samaritans purse, operation Christmas child?

I refused to do them.... So can't help probably.

Totally useless for you I know Grin

cestlavielife · 18/11/2018 00:22

I think just doing something because without thought is something to think about !
Interesting article from Baptist news on alternatives. It s us but same principle...
Think local.
Your kids could wrap a gift for a specific child at your local scheme ..they do one in my local shopping centre the age of chikd is stated. Or local refuge.
baptistnews.com/article/10-alternatives-operation-christmas-child/#.W_Cv68mnzqA

cestlavielife · 18/11/2018 00:26

“So often, the church makes generosity synonymous with the free giving of stuff, but it’s not. I’ve seen Westerners come in and drop off a whole bunch of stuff — toys, free food, tons of clothes. Typically it’s not useful, they’re paying way too much for overseas shipping and suddenly the local food or clothing vendors don’t make their living for the week, and those are important jobs for struggling communities.”

WeeM · 18/11/2018 00:27

We did it for the first time this year. I did the bar code thing so I can find out where it’s gone. I thought it seemed a really good idea.

cestlavielife · 18/11/2018 00:31

P.s. I have no problem with anyone choosing to do the shoebox if you so wish but do so with thought and having been fully informed. Find out the costs of shipping and barcoding.

ReanimatedSGB · 18/11/2018 00:36

There are various appeals going on at the moment which are rather more ethical than Operation Christmas Child, which is simply a propaganda scam run by racist shitbags.

liquidrevolution · 18/11/2018 07:54

I do women's refuge shoeboxes. They go to a charity that has storage for them and they get dished out from there because the locations of refuges are kept secret.

makingmammaries · 18/11/2018 08:01

Please do consider the cost and carbon footprint of shipping halfway across the world shoeboxes containing items that could be bought locally, interspersed with a whole lot of air.

AvocadosBeforeMortgages · 18/11/2018 08:43

This is a good list of alternatives available in the UK humanism.org.uk/humanism/humanism-today/humanists-doing/good-causes-and-charities/samaritans-purse/

I wouldn't touch OCC with a bargepole now I know about its views and tactics.

BertrandRussell · 18/11/2018 08:59

“Please do consider the cost and carbon footprint of shipping halfway across the world shoeboxes containing items that could be bought locally, interspersed with a whole lot of air.”

This. Even people who are happy with the hideous ethics should be brought up short by the environmental impact, and the waste of resources.

Alsoplayspiccolo · 18/11/2018 09:02

My son's school encouraged pupils to take part in OCC last year. We spent a fortune on items for the box, did the barcode thing so that we could find out where it had gone, and both my children and my DH volunteered at one of the depots.

Months later, we had an email saying they weren't able to tell us where the box had been sent, which cheesed me off, and this year the school hasn't mentioned OCC at all, presumably in light of the recent negative publicity.

Nacmonalds · 18/11/2018 09:05

They go to a far-right, evangelical American Christian charity that uses them to try to pressure kids (who may well be Muslim/Hindu) to convert to Christianity. They also use them to spread an anti-gay message.

They’re not ‘spreading the spirit of Christmas to children in poverty’ - what they’re really doing is attempting to spread it their extreme branch of Christianity to kids who aren’t Christian and don’t even celebrate Christmas.

Nacmonalds · 18/11/2018 09:09

We did it for the first time this year. I did the bar code thing so I can find out where it’s gone. I thought it seemed a really good idea

I did it several times too before I realised how horrific it really was.

A) it’s a pretty inefficient way of giving charity.
B) the kids given the boxes often aren’t Christian, so don’t need generous westerners giving them Christmas presents!
C) OCC put extremist Christian material in the shoeboxes, including homophobic messages.

ourkidmolly · 18/11/2018 09:15

I did 4 for the local homeless refuge last Christmas. Walked them down there and handed them out myself so low carbon footprint. They were for men with addiction issues so cash not suitable alternative. New underwear, socks, gloves, smellies, chocolate, torch, etc....Wrapped up in nice paper.

Katiet123 · 18/11/2018 09:21

A friend of mine organises this in the north. They drop off at the local homeless shelter so low carbon footprint. They do human and dogs ones.

karigan · 18/11/2018 10:19

I organise a 'Christmas box' appeal for my school. We wrap big cardboard boxes, fill them full of food, toiletries and hats and gloves and donate them to a local food bank.
Still the same idea but we know that there isn't anything dodgy going on with pushing religion, reducing local wages.

SusanneLinder · 18/11/2018 10:35

I donate £15 to the local foodbank so people can get a Christmas dinner and donate to local toy appeal.

littlemeitslyn · 18/11/2018 22:16

Why would anyone refuse to do it, so Scroogely

greathat · 18/11/2018 22:27

@littlemeitslyn read the thread, loads of reasons

IncyWincyGrownUp · 18/11/2018 23:17

I used to have a lot of time for the rucksack project, but it disbanded due to various issues. I think I’m going to put together some bits and bobs for the food bank this year instead.

TheMadGardener · 19/11/2018 00:01

This year some of our local pubs have collection points for socks for a local homeless shelter. You get a hiking-type warm sock and inside you put the other sock and items like gloves, comb, toothbrush, toothpaste, other toiletries, chocolate.

steppemum · 19/11/2018 00:05

I used to live in a country where the shoe boxes arrived.
I was part of a local church that received them an distributed them. (I was not involved)

I don't do them

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