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Anyone been part of the shoebox appeal team?

37 replies

Disabrie22 · 17/11/2018 23:44

I’ve just made the usual charity shoe box appeal boxes with the children and I’m curious about who gets them and how the process of giving them out works? I know there’s various critiques but I remember someone coming on here who worked for them - but I can’t remember what they said. Anyone part of the process?

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LollyLarkin · 19/11/2018 06:11

I’m an expat in Azerbaijan and I took part in a reverse advent calendar for poor families. It was done on a really small scale and we were given the names and ages of the children in the selected families. My family last year was a single mother of a 9 year old girl who live in the countryside. I was able to put together a whole load of food as well as some presents for both of them, it felt really personal. When they were handed out by the local nuns in the convent we saw photos of them receiving it. Taking part in a really small scale, local charity felt much better than sending a shoebox to an anonymous recipient far away like I did a few years ago.

BedHair · 19/11/2018 06:16

I stopped my son’s school doing OCC when he was in Reception. The Head had no idea, was horrified and now they do local food bank stuff.

AbsolCatly · 19/11/2018 06:32

At work we support a local one for children who otherwise would not get anything - as it is run through a local community group we have had feedback and one year a lovely picture made by the kids as a thank you

tinytemper66 · 19/11/2018 06:34

As a school we have stopped doing this and are donating locally to a food bank instead.
Personally I am donating to the local food bank to me. There are families in my school with nothing and in my local area so I have chosen to help them to have nice food for Christmas even if they don't have much else.

flowery · 19/11/2018 06:42

I have now stopped two schools doing this by writing to the HTs with links about Samaritans Purse and their evangelical practices and homophobic/islamophobic views.

#proud

backaftera2yearbreak · 19/11/2018 06:55

May I suggest with universal credit in full swing in some places people consider donating to food banks.

Ragwort · 19/11/2018 07:00

Without wanting to sound negative please check with your local Food Bank to find out what they actually need at this time of year, the one I help at gets totally overwhelmed with donations around Christmas, we run out of storage space and there are only so many Christmas puddings you can give out. Cash is always useful or wait until end of February when stocks run low.

TheDarkPassenger · 19/11/2018 07:43

We do something similar but small scale. We collect food and presents for some of our less fortunate service users that we help daily throughout the year, we personally hand them out ourselves. Can you find something local? Our local church does similar too

Willow2017 · 19/11/2018 08:49

Why would anyone refuse to do it, so Scroogely

Cos we arent racist bigoted homophobes?

Read up on the 'good' Mr Grahams rants on the above topics then say its a good idea to promote their cause.

BertrandRussell · 19/11/2018 09:56

"Why would anyone refuse to do it, so Scroogely"

Because we can read and think?

flowery · 19/11/2018 11:08

"Why would anyone refuse to do it, so Scroogely"

RTFT. No one is not doing it because they are mean and don't believe in giving to charity. Hmm

Yura · 19/11/2018 11:23

Depends which one - my work does one for the nearby homeless shelter - socks, gloves, hat, wipes, shower gel, chocolate
Son’s school does one for local food bank (food items from list)

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