My not very dear husband

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Both my parents died in the last 10 months my mum less than a week ago. he thought it would be a good idea to put a third rate comdey program about dead parents. I can’t find a bad enough word to call him. C..t doesn’t seem bad enough for how I feel. Please drop me a few suggestions x

He’s horrible. Redeeming features?

Tell him you’ll watch the same programme when his parents die.

Isn’t this the disgusting man who told you he wanted a divorce the day of your mums death. He’s vile. And cruel. 😢

Is he thoughtless? Malicious? Or the emotional capacity of a feckless toad?

My response would vary depending on the man.

None however would be very PG friendly.

I’m so sorry for your loss, OP. Keep going, as hard as it is right now, from experience with my own parents I learnt time is a great healer.

I’m so sorry! That’s terrible! What was the comedy? Anything well known? Was it a coincidence that there was a scene like that or does the whole comedy revolve around that subject?

Fucking hell what an absolute idiot.

I have to wander if some men are born with any feelings at all. Sending you a hug op and sorry to read of your losses 💐

What a hideous man. Take him up on his offer of a divorce and get shot of him for good.

Wow. Did he realise what a clanger it was?

Has he been apologetic? / Does he have form for this sort of BS?

Please divorce this man - do a Den and Angie and give him the papers on Christmas Day!!! And keep us posted.
Sorry for your loss of both parents. X

Crispy butty one and the same. He says he’s now changed his mind. Didn’t seem to have any redeeming talents left, however I very worried because he never used to be like this I’m querying altziemers but he seems to put up a pretty good show when the kids come round so they think I’m exaggerating. I don’t know what to d. Sorry all, you don’t need this shut do you

Rant away. This place was my lifeline when I was with my alcoholic abusive ex husband. The man who even made an arse of himself at my mums funeral. Mumsnetters gave me the strength to change my life and get my self worth and confidence back. And get rid of him,

I hope you are doing ok

Och, you poor love, how very shit. Sending you loads of flowers and a big hug. Xxx

He had huge form for being an abusive dick but I so love the den and Angie idea. I’m gunna have to starve myself, dye and curl my hair and have a huge shopping spree and learn how to walk in hi heels again. Where they white stilletos ir black. Thanks everyone I feel so much better not on my own x

Why are you with such a toxic person? Don't throw your life away OP.

So sorry that you have had this double loss in such a short space of time - that must be shattering. Cant believe that someone can choose to add to your pain at this time.

Has he been hanging in there for an inheritance from your DP - then deciding to divorce you on their deaths so that he can take half?

Mine made a huge arse if himself at my dads funeral. Disappeared to the far end of the bar and ordered half a pint of lager in a pint glass and top the rest up with whisky!! He then came to borrow my card because he ‘couldn’t find ‘ his! God why am I so stupid l didn’t see this coming

He says he’s now changed his mind.

Tell the twat you want a divorce and you won't be changing your mind.

You're not in for any inheritance are you? Seems a bit coincidental that he's changed his mind all of a sudden ... so sorry for your losses

Oh another20. I didn’t think of that. Thank you. There is quite a lot of money involved.will get in contact with my brothers and sort out

Get divorced as quickly as possible!

You are all so clever and helpfull. Do I have to share any inheritance?

Can him!!

Life is too short to put up with this shit.

Sorry about the loss of your dear parents. I bet I know what they'd be telling you to do!

No your inheritance is all yours. Be clever now Op. if it goes into a shared account, he is legally entitled to half

Tell the son of a bitch he has 30 minutes to pack his belongings and get out or tomorrow they’ll be scattered on the front lawn for the viewing pleasure of the neighbors cause you’ll send them an email to enjoy the show!