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AIBU?

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To ask for your help in deciding between two job offers?

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nightcarro · 11/11/2018 15:46

Not really an AIBU, but I'm in desperate need of advice. I'm lucky enough to have been offered two graduate positions and cannot choose between them.

They are both in the same industry, doing similar work.

Job 1 - company is more prestigious than job 2 and I would be working on higher profile projects. Company 1 is probably the leader in the industry. Company has a general friendly feel to it and was my first choice for a long time. Got a very good impression of the company and its employees at the interviews. The teams are big and I'd be one of ~60 graduates starting, so probably less involved in the projects and potentially less exposure to senior members. The job is based in London.

Job 2 - slightly less prestigious but still a well-known company. Most important distinction is that the job is in Asia! The projects would likely be less well known, but I'd be one of 3 graduates in a team of ~30 overall, working directly with very senior members. I didn't get as great an impression from the interviewers (though they were perfectly nice) but since I got the offer, a whole load of different team members have been emailing/calling me to say congrats and introduce themselves/offer advice etc. Pay is significantly higher (around £16k higher per year, plus lower tax rates) and accommodation would be provided for the first 6 months.

As a bit of background, I don't currently live in either city, though of course London is a lot closer! I have no real responsibilities (no partner, kids etc) that stop me moving abroad but I have no clue if it's the right thing for me, or how easy it would be to internally transfer back to the UK again if I needed to. I feel like if I don't move abroad now, I probably never will but I worry that with such a small team, the whole experience will be awful if (for whatever reason) I don't get along with the rest of the team.

Any input whatsoever is hugely appreciated as I am currently clueless!

OP posts:
Shambu · 13/11/2018 12:23

I think you made the right choice OP, although both would have been positive choices.

Your list of considerations really crunches it.

nightcarro · 13/11/2018 12:40

Thank you all for the support.

I'm trying to think of it the way that @Shambu put, both would have been good choices I'm sure, so hopefully I can't go too badly wrong!

One final question from a clueless student - after letting company 2 know that I wouldn't be taking their offer, they've asked if I can let them know what I will be doing instead. Basically, what they really want to know is the name of company 1. Can/should I tell them? I assume they will find out anyway if they really want to (LinkedIn is a wonderful thing) but I'm not sure what the protocol is here.

OP posts:
PainUni · 13/11/2018 12:49

Congrats OP! It's great you've taken every thing into consideration and made a decision. Both would good opportunities but I can see why you chose option 1. I don't think you'll regret it.

Sorry can't help about replying. I would leave it for a day or two anyways with replying.

Picnictime · 13/11/2018 15:19

Fully considered decision and sounds like the right one given your latest post. Congrats on the new job :) solid choice and you have no need for regrets

I hope you get to take an overseas placement at some point in the near future.

If you reply just say that you'd prefer not to say (I assume via email). I wouldn't reply though to be honest.

HotInWinter · 13/11/2018 15:26

Congrats! Your reasoning is sound (even tho I was team Singapore), and I wish you all the best in your new job.

I think I would reply, and answer the question without naming the company. So along the lines of it was a very tough choice between 2 offers, but at the end of the day the other job just pipped them.

puppymouse · 13/11/2018 20:31

Go to Asia. Someone in my family has just made this leap for a few years and seems to be really liking it. It'll stand out on your CV and provide more talking points than the fact you worked in the number 1 company.

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