To ask when does someone stop deserving slack for being a troubled soul and simply deserve being left for being a plain old fashioned bastard?

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Ive intentionally posted in aibu ratger than relationships because i figure this is a busy place and you will all have an idea that could help me understand.

When does someone stop deserving slack for being a troubled soul and simply deserve being left for being a plain old fashioned bastard?

It's also extremely difficult see when you're in it!

Yes. They prefer misery. I can relate so incredibly easily to that.