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to think this is beautiful - made me cry

52 replies

Badmoonsarising · 03/11/2018 14:40

An inspirational twitter thread i found today.

mobile.twitter.com/meandmybigmouth

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Badmoonsarising · 03/11/2018 16:08

Right, where to start - I guess I just found it surprising and hugely touching. Twitter is quite toxic, seemingly bringing out the worst in many folk and so many people were brought together in joy at this simple tale.

I think it was when the author simply stated it was his grandmother with such obvious pride and love - I wasn’t expecting something sweet, quirky and interesting to turn into a personal family story. It made me think of Florence as a much more real person.

It’s 1933, she was basically a live in maid it seems, a teenage girl/woman from probably a working class background who still managed to follow her passion and get the chance to be the first to do something quite extraordinary and unusual for a young woman from her background, to be recognised and celebrated with everything that embodies upperclass male privilege towering in the background. That she went on to have a long life surrounded by a loving family is lovely - i do get emotional by old photographs of people when they are young and full of joy and hope, next to photographs of them as old people who will have experienced so much including heartache and tragedy and now are at the end if their lives.

I just thought the photos were marvellous, showing a different time but make the people look so relatable - that researching his beloved grandmother led the author to find the lost/unknown video footage was just brilliant. What a wonderful thing for the family to have to remember her by.

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Urbanbeetler · 03/11/2018 16:15

It moved me! I love that the tweeter and his dad found some old film of it and saw it for the first time that day.

There is a lovely clip of a woman who is over 100 seeing herself as a young woman dancing on film for the first time. I found that moving too!

rightreckoner · 03/11/2018 16:19

I saw that earlier and loved it too. Yes it’s when he says “she was my grandmother”. Someone who was in that grandmotherly role and that’s how he always saw her but actually she had some stories of her own. Loved her crying at Big Ben sounding all night but then getting used to it. And just running in the traffic because she could Smile

Limensoda · 03/11/2018 16:20

Nice, interesting story but didn't make me tear up.

Urbanbeetler · 03/11/2018 16:21

It was quite inspirational really. Especially when you think how working class women were often overlooked. She competed with the mps.

Badmoonsarising · 03/11/2018 16:27

Urbanbeetler

I’ve seen that before and agree it wonderful! I’m sure it probably made me cry too! 😭

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Gilead · 03/11/2018 16:34

That's fabulous!

Oysterbabe · 03/11/2018 16:38

That's wonderful Smile

OldBean2 · 03/11/2018 17:19

Oh my goodness, I saw it this morning and sobbed. It would make a great drama on the tv, methinks.

Urbanbeetler · 03/11/2018 17:43

Oh wouldn’t it! You should pitch that idea.

nellieellie · 03/11/2018 18:10

I thought it was lovely. I’ve recently lost both parents and needed to go through lots of old photos I’ve never seen before in clearing the family home.
I can really relate to the sense of sadness and celebration of seeing people, dead now, in the hope and energy of youth. To find that footage must have been amazing.

HurrahMoaningMyrtle · 03/11/2018 18:29

Love it, thank you

And the lady watching herself dance - amazing stuff

waterlego6064 · 03/11/2018 18:39

the sense of sadness and celebration of seeing people, dead now, in the hope and energy of youth Yes, exactly this nellie

I’m sorry for your losses. I lost my mum and dad very close together 5 years ago, and still haven’t managed to sort through all of their old photographs!

But the one box I have been through contained this one of my Mum, which made me feel just as you describe above. It was so wonderful to see my mum as a beautiful and energised young woman, before I was even on her radar!

to think this is beautiful  - made me cry
waterlego6064 · 03/11/2018 18:41

Especially as she had been so very thin and tired at the end of her life.

Badmoonsarising · 03/11/2018 18:52

Nellieellie - I can really relate to the sense of sadness and celebration of seeing people, dead now, in the hope and energy of youth. To find that footage must have been amazing. Exactly!

Waterlego - that’s a beautiful pic of your mum. Both my oarrnts are gone now, my dad just last year- i found an old pic of them - must have been around their engagement- my mum was still only about 19 and they are so young and so smart, wearing their best clothes.

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SpookyTeaBag · 03/11/2018 18:54

Ah waterlego, that has moved me. Your mum looks wonderful Flowers

Gemini69 · 03/11/2018 19:23

what a beautiful photo Flowers

Urbanbeetler · 03/11/2018 19:26

It is a great picture. What a beautiful, vibrant young woman she was.

Violetparis · 03/11/2018 19:27

Such a lovely photo waterlego Flowers

Unihorn · 03/11/2018 19:31

@chrisinthesun everyone's entitled to their opinion of course but, bloody hell, I bet you're a barrel of laughs when people share good news with you! What an insular way to live.

serialtester · 03/11/2018 19:52

Urbanbeetler and Waterlego - wonderful links and pictures. OP, I get it.

waterlego6064 · 03/11/2018 20:17

Awwww, you guys. 💐

I’m glad you could see what I see in that photo!

waterlego6064 · 03/11/2018 20:20

This thread, and our reminiscences reminded me of this Carol Ann Duffy poem.m

to think this is beautiful  - made me cry
Urbanbeetler · 03/11/2018 20:25

She writes a great poem!

MicroManaged · 03/11/2018 20:30

Nope, I’ve read it again and I just don’t see it.

From the op, I thought the woman would have discovered a love of running and a opened up a running club for the local orphanage or something similarly amazing.