Unless someone has a medical issue i can’t understand how people have to poo immediately at the first sign of an urge, regardless of where they are. Surely it can be held in, but if not how bloody rude not to clean the loo before you leave it. I bet he’s one of those men who think cleaning toilets is women’s work. hmm
More people than you think have condition that can cause an immediate need. But reactions like yours aren't unusual. Our previous postie had such a condition, and ours was only one of a few houses on a five hour round where he could be certain he'd get an understanding reaction and access to a loo.
A delivery driver could be on the road for 10+hrs. There's next to no public loos these days, and even supermarket loos can be awkward if the van won't fit under the car park barrier. As it was a furniture delivery I imagine it was a Luton van or larger.
@borderline11 - he couldn't clean the loo because the OPs own condition means that she can't tolerate a toilet brush in the house. Unless he was supposed to use one of his own socks.
As a nation we're very uncomfortable talking about shit and other bodily functions. But arseholes are like opinions, we all have one. But we'll defend our right to hold an opinion far more readily than we'll defend another's right to possess an arsehole.
Pucker up and smile, it might be you one day.