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I never used to go around with a water bottle, let alone, grab a cup of coffee

741 replies

LittleBookofCalm · 13/10/2018 12:46

every time I went out.
what is it with people having to be constantly Slurping!

the world cannot cope with all the rubbish this causes.

OP posts:
Sugarformyhoney · 14/10/2018 15:59

I often drink water and coffee on the go. I have a community based job and don’t get the chance to sit down between visits.
It’s never crossed my mind that I might look super busy or healthy Hmm but I obviously care less about other people than the op

Antigon · 14/10/2018 16:16

Maybe Tom Hanks had it right in You've Got Mail:

“The whole purpose of places like Starbucks is for people with no decision-making ability whatsoever to make six decisions just to buy one cup of coffee. Short, tall, light, dark, caf, decaf, low-fat, non-fat, etc. So people who don't know what the hell they're doing or who on earth they are can, for only $2.95, get not just a cup of coffee but an absolutely defining sense of self: Tall. Decaf. Cappuccino." - Joe Fox”
― Nora Ephron

chocsahoy · 14/10/2018 16:30

I can't cope with all those decisions it makes me go blank

JassyRadlett · 14/10/2018 16:49

I guess it's the availability of good coffee at stations etc. Years ago it would be a grey cup of some awful instant so you either had it at home or waited till you got to work!

This is true. I get my coffee (in a reusable cup, no need for smelling salts) at the station, assuming I’ve managed to drop the kids off on time. I then get the time on the train to enjoy my coffee.

If it’s been a rush, I get coffee at Pret (better coffee, good discount for reusable cup) on my walk between the station and the office, and drink it as I walk along. Not quite as good, but still preferable to waiting until I get to work. No doubt this raises the hackles of those who think I’m doing Peformative Beverage Carrying, particularly as I walk quite quickly.

When I get to work it’s usually fairly full on from the moment I sit down. I’d rather enjoy my coffee before I walk in the door.

I always carry a bottle of tap water with me when commuting, having been trapped on or behind broken down trains or in the midst of severe delays.

Oh dear. I must upset so many of you.

Kelsoooo · 14/10/2018 17:10

I’m another who always has a bottle of water on the go.

And, they are single use plastics. But they’ve been reused hundreds of times....so does that count?

I work field based, not visiting clients in their home. When exactly Am I supposed to have a drink that isn’t “on the go”?

bubblegumunicorn · 14/10/2018 17:22

I carry my own I’m fussy about what I drink so I take my own stuff to work and I’d rather not buy any if I get thirsty when out 🤷‍♀️ So I bring it with me. As for Starbucks ect it’s a nice treat and not something I make for my self at home! I love a trip to Starbucks! :)

Dillydallyer · 14/10/2018 17:24

Only on mumsnet can you be judged for having a drink 🙄 of all the crap posts I’ve read this one is definitely up there!

Kateshereyay · 14/10/2018 17:27

I can see the point about waste but if it’s a reusable cup/bottle you need to get a life!

mrbreezeet1 · 14/10/2018 17:29

Maybe they smoke fags, Or the weed, and are thirsty all the time.
Serious comment.
No, they should not leave litter around, But so what If they are drinking coffee or soda, or water.
Maybe they are out a lot more than home.
YABU

Antigon · 14/10/2018 17:29

And, they are single use plastics. But they’ve been reused hundreds of times....so does that count?

Do you mean to say you've re-used a plastic bottle (like an Evian bottle) hundreds of times?

That's really bad for you. The plastic leaches into your water.

Only use BPA free bottles as a re-usable bottle.

AnotherPidgey · 14/10/2018 17:31

In healthy people with no underlying conditions the need to be constantly "hydrated" is overhyped.

I've got a pair of 300ml bottles for my running belt for long runs. If I drink well in the hours building up to a run, I can get back with plenty of spare fluid after a couple of hours running. In the majority of circumstances, I don't need water on a run that is an hour or less. Most of the time, I get back and am still well hydrated with light coloured pee. I notice at my DCs' activities such as gymnastics which are fairly sedate, there are masses of water bottles lined up at the edge of the sports hall, and the children simply don't get that sweaty in the class to have to drink through a bottle. Runners are more likely to have issues with over-hydrating on water and not replacing lost electrolytes than to simply not drink enough.

While I found a 750ml bottle useful on my desk as a teacher because talking for 5 hours a day in a warm stuffy classroom is drying, too many students were a PITA with their bottles, fidgeting, leaks, wanting to refill them, needing the loo... If they run out mid-lesson, they are not going to dehydrate to a dessicated husk in the next 45 mins of sitting down. Hmm A bottle stashed away in your bag for when you need it is fine, but people can be irritating with them when they are out.

Coffee culture evades me completely. I've never understood its levels of popularity anyway. I miss nice cafes with good cake, not loud wooshy coffee shops with overpriced sickly cakes and their whole new language to over complicate things.

Maybe some people didn't drink enough in the past, but there was value in pausing to take breaks that has been lost in recent years. It is sad that teachers (insert alternative profession of choice) don't get the chance to physically and mentally recharge for 15 minutes in the staffroom any more. Water/ soft drinks companies have done a great job on publicity to maximise bottles water sales and convince people that they have a need to drink regularly. We are in a cycle of convenience replacing rest. Maybe in the absence of smoking, bottles and cups replace the fidget factor of smoking. We have lost a lot of drinking fountains that could be utilised directly. I can only think of one at a leisure centre and had to show the DCs what to do as they haven't seen that type elsewhere. Most other types need cups and bottles to fill. I don't know if the drinking fountain declined from over zealous hygiene fears. I've very recently heard of a grant funding new ones locally.

Abilouise · 14/10/2018 17:32

I'm breastfeeding so constantly thirsty. I have a 5year old son and a baby. I'm not a single mum but DH works stupid hours so I don't get help when going out with the kids. I often forget to bring out drinks so have to purchase drinks outside. I usually make use of the bottles some how. For example, me and DS made a rocket out of one. I poured rice in another one and glued the lid shut and DD likes shaking it about. There's only so many things I can do with a bottle so some do go in the bin after use. Nice to know that when I buy drinks outside there's a good chance I'm being judged!

GloomyMonday · 14/10/2018 17:34

Evian bottles are bpa free

babyno5 · 14/10/2018 17:35

My late father was a very keen cyclist and always used to go on about this constant rehydration. He tells how he could cycle from South London to Hastings- 60 miles each way. He’d have a cup of tea in Hastings then cycle home again. He made it to 86 in good health!!

serbska · 14/10/2018 17:36

Because people believe the water bottle and other drinks marketing and think humans are balanced on a knife edge between hydration and dehydration and so must carry water at all times.

Also as a society we are becoming unable to wait for anything, or to tolerate any slight discomfort (feeling slightly thirsty on the way home from work).

serbska · 14/10/2018 17:37

At a boxing gym class I go to. 5 min warm up. Then “ok everyone, take a drink”

We don’t need a fucking drink after 5 mins of exercise!

GloomyMonday · 14/10/2018 17:38

What if most people doing give a shit about hydration but just enjoy the taste of a coffee that's better than they can make at home, they can afford the necessary cost, they take a reusable bamboo cup and they just mind their own business, go about their day, feeling like they're having a nice treat on their way to work? Is that allowed or must we all be so fucking judgmental and joyless that even the act of having a drink is meant to send us into a paroxysm of guilt or worry about how we're being perceived?

Cobrider · 14/10/2018 17:40

Aren’t some people starting to take this thread a bit too seriously now?

lololove · 14/10/2018 17:41

I envy the people who can drink large amounts of water... I keep meaning to up my intake and then never do!

I have hyperhidrosis (i sweat too much) and the medication I am on make me compltely - mouth, nose, eyes and everything. I can't talk sometimes because my mouth and throat are totally dry.... I HAVE to keep drinking or I will dehydrate and feel incredibly poorly.

I honestly don't see why what other people do bothers you though - I barely notice what people look like/are wearing never mind what they're drinking!

Antigon · 14/10/2018 17:45

GloomyMonday

I wonder why they don't shout about it on their website?

Regardless, I don't those flimsy bottles should be re-used hundreds of times. They are prone to bacteria and the plastic will slowly leach into the water.

DistanceCall · 14/10/2018 17:48

I drink all the time, because I have quite a bit of an oral fixation (lucky I never took up smoking).

I always use reusable bottles and cups (e.g. KeepCup).

psicat · 14/10/2018 17:51

I've always loved a good cup of coffee and used to think I'd much rather go to a coffee house than the pub in younger days so I love the modern trend for cafes - I always loved going abroad because of the wealth of coffee houses.
Sadly I do not have time now to go to cafes (or the pub). I make my own coffee at home and take it out with me in my recycled reusable cup. I try to have a bottle of water (reusable, water from the tap... ) too as I genuinely do not know when I'm going to stop next. I've suffered too much from dehydration headaches in the past so now trying to look after myself.

I completely agree with the excessive number of one use cups/bottles but if it's reusable what's the problem?

My parents who are definitely in the elderly range think it's a great idea to carry water around and note that there used to be drinking fountains more freely available so wasn't need to before.

AviatorShades · 14/10/2018 17:52

My client base were mostly ladies of an age of 80+, you know the sort...get up, turn on the telly en route to the kitchen for their tea,then Jeremy Kyle(nice man,lovely haircut!) all the way til they had to get ready to go to their clubs. And they all bought heavily into the ads of energy drinks/waters, etc. I once arranged to pick one up to drive her round 3 corners to the local Co-op to buy a replacement fridge/freezer - using my card I could get her a discount. Loaded her into the car, finally, ready for the off. The co-op also has a cafe. Three corners,remember,5 minutes?.. started off and then she remembered she'd forgotten something. Her soddin' water bottle, cos,y'know, i might be driving there via the Kalahari Desert?
And,truly,they're all the sameShock
The power of advertising, eh?

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becca2405 · 14/10/2018 17:53

I think this thread is pretty twatty.
Yes some people drink coffee/water on the go.
Some people do not.
Why on earth do some people care so much about what other people do?!
Sometimes I drink on the go, sometimes not. But I certainly don't judge anyone for their drinking habits, or care less.
Some people obviously don't have enough in their own lives to keep them busy that they have to start criticising others.

RosieFree · 14/10/2018 18:02

Lool the most ridiculous post I’ve possibly ever read.
Water is needed. I’m constantly on the move so always feel dehydrated if I don’t drink enough so I carry a reusable bottle with me.
I also carry a reusable coffee cup.

The only annoying thing is the amount of waste that comes from the amount of non-usable coffee cups and water bottles.

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