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Woman spends over 4 thousand in Harrods every day for 10 years

118 replies

FarrahMoan · 11/10/2018 10:12

AIBU to ask how the fuck? Surely you can only replace furniture, gadgets etc so quickly. Maybe if you bought a brand new outfit everyday? A £1k bottle of champagne? I'm amazed and disgusted in equal measure

(she spent £16mil over 10 years - the equivalent of over £4k per day)

OP posts:
megletthesecond · 11/10/2018 13:54

It wasn't her money to spend.

AuntBeastie · 11/10/2018 13:59

To be fair, £4,000 would only get you a couple of teaspoons and a kettle in Harrods.

longwayoff · 11/10/2018 14:36

I hope so too silvercuckoo this country has become the go to criminal money haven. Utterly disgusting.

Haworthia · 11/10/2018 14:42

I’m surprised people are shocked tbh. I doubt her spending threshold was considered particularly notable or unusual for Harrods or other high end London stores.

It’s a world I know nothing of, but high end stores in London are teeming with people like that.

WTFsMyUserName · 11/10/2018 15:21

If she lives across the road from the store and she has the kind of money where she doesn't have to look at price tags then it's not hard to spend £4K a day. There are items of clothing in there that cost £6-7k a piece. Furs, fine jewellery and watches will easily tip you into the hundreds of thousands. She probably shops as much as the rest of us, only difference is her shit costs substantially more.

WTFsMyUserName · 11/10/2018 15:23

Also, people in her position have no idea what non high-end stuff costs.

IPromiseIWontBeNaughty · 11/10/2018 15:32

Harrods is one of my favourite shops. The customer service is excellent, they have a rewards cards which earn you money off points & often 10% discounts.

Their cottage pie is to die for.

They haven’t charged for the loo for years. Sure some of it is tacky but their furniture & food departments are excellent. So there. Going there next week in fact.

mirialis · 11/10/2018 16:18

She probably shops as much as the rest of us

I suspect she was doing an awful lot more shopping than the rest of us. Whether she was actually spending at a rate of £4k a day rather than hefty purchases averaging at £1.6m a year, I bet she was in there most of her free time... i.e. most of her time.

Also bet she never went near the cottage pie or the loos.

Rebecca36 · 11/10/2018 18:13

Hee hee longway off, you're very welcome :-).

Rebecca36 · 11/10/2018 18:20

I hope she doesn't lose everything because of her rotten husband. So many women (sorry to be sexist but what I say is generally the case) end up in poverty because their husband has been dishonest and it's not their fault. They don't all know about it, just think their husband is a whizz at business or whatever.

If I was her I'd hide all my assets in different places, difficult to find, and employ someone discreet to sell some of them.

Imagine if she was successful, she could bung wads of cash in envelopes and stick through poor people's letter boxes! She'd still have enough left over for her fags and booze (& tsupport her meerkats).

longwayoff · 11/10/2018 18:25

Hold your concern Rebecca, I'm sure she'll be absolutely fine. Unless she's forced to return to her country of origin to face the people fleeced by her husband, but I suspect that's very unlikely.

E20mom · 11/10/2018 18:29

If you've been to Harrods it's not hard to see how.

SleepingInYourFlowerbed · 11/10/2018 18:29

I imagine she's going to jail if it turns out the funds were a result of the embezzlement...

FekkoTheLawyer · 11/10/2018 18:33

If my husband was a lowly worker drone - then moved to London, bought a house next to Harrods, a golf course and said 'here darling there's 35 credit cards - try to keep it to £4k a day, there's a love' I may be a little bit suspicious.

OrigamiZoo · 11/10/2018 18:35

I was in Harrods a couple of weeks ago to do some mystery shopping. It was full of foreign, bored looking badly dressed women.

FekkoTheLawyer · 11/10/2018 18:40

And fat kids using daddy's gold Amex cards to buy ice creams.

I used to have to go there and I hated it. My grandma used to sniff 'I wouldnt give any of it house room' and that was before it went really bling tat-tastic (and my grandma was pretty blingy herself).

silvercuckoo · 11/10/2018 18:47

Also, people in her position have no idea what non high-end stuff costs.
Lol. She's a Soviet born woman in her late 50s. Chances are, she did not even have a washing machine before her late 20s - early 30s.

zippey · 11/10/2018 18:52

Her husband is in prison. She needs to be in prison too.

FekkoTheLawyer · 11/10/2018 19:08

They weren't always filthy rich - so I suspect she did know the price of things before. She must have been even a tiny bit curious about their massive wealth.

It's not like they moved to a tiny village on the outskirts of beyond beyond and could buy the biggest hut and anything they wanted in the market. They moved to a house in Central London and bought a golf course, and jewellery and wines from Harrods.

She surely must have noticed the slight change in their circumstances, no?

Mandarine · 11/10/2018 19:30

Yes I read about this woman and I do feel a bit sorry for her in a strange way. Chances are, she had no idea what her DH was up to financially. Those men are very deceptive and there is a reason they get away with it. There are many people who will spend that kind of money in a ten year period -eg in shares, property investments, art, collectors of whatever - the main thing that’s weird here is that she spent it all in one shop!

On the subject of Harrods, yes it’s all’s bit glitz and hard work - however... if you are going to buy some jewellery (as this woman has done) it definitely makes sense to buy in say, the Harrods Cartier or Boodles or whatever, as opposed to the same shop down the road. The price is the same, but you get the Harrods points which really add up. The Reward scheme there makes it well worth you making any larger purchases in store, as opposed to the same shop outside. If you spend day, £15,000, you would get about £700 back in points to spend in store. I think this woman probably got carried away with her Harrods card and that store would offer all sorts of benefits to that kind of customer - I can only imagine!

I live near Harrods, but most people just use it as a cut-through, rather than shop there. Where it gets extortionate is the food. DS was going on a French exchange and thought he’d take some tea as a gift for the host family. There were various tins, he picked up 3 - two were about £10 each, but then the third, which appeared exactly the same, just a different flavour, was £50! So they sneak these things in, hoping people don’t notice. Loads of tourists daily. There is a Quatari cafe in there where you get I think 5 mini mini cakes (think a single macaron) and a few egg cup sized teacups of coffee for £50! Who can be bothered?

Anyway, I hope this woman doesn’t end up in prison as a scapegoat because there will be far worse than her and chances are she had no idea what her husband was doing and I doubt he would have listened to her advice anyway. Those men never do.

Aprilislonggone · 11/10/2018 19:31

Wonder if they still charged her for a bag?!

longwayoff · 11/10/2018 19:41

Something tells me she probably wasnt too concerned about loyalty card points.

Dontfeellikeamillenial · 11/10/2018 19:44

She bought a gulf stream jet for 30 million or something

Dontfeellikeamillenial · 11/10/2018 19:46

Anyway, I hope this woman doesn’t end up in prison as a scapegoat because there will be far worse than her and chances are she had no idea what her husband was doing anyway

^^

Hum.

She was too busy spending the wonga to bother wondering why?

flopsyrabbit1 · 11/10/2018 20:05

she must have known,its laughable she didnt