It's my birthday tomorrow and my sister had asked to come round with 1yr old nephew. Usually this isn't a problem however, I have just started chemo I had my first treatment Saturday and DN has hand foot and mouth he was taken to OOH yesterday and was diagnosed. He isn't allowed to go to nursery this week.
I called my chemo nurse about seeing DN and the nurse said no, definitely not.
I had spoken to Dsis this morning to say sorry you can't visit at the moment. She then said that DN wanted to see me on my birthday so they would drive (45 minutes) to drive by and wave 
. I said don't bother I'd Skype instead.
Dsis, DN and BIL turned up half an hour ago. DH opened the door and Dsis told him I said to come by. Obviously DH knew she was talking shite. Anyway long story short I shouted down from the top of the stairs, she shouldn't have bothered coming and I'd call her tomorrow. DH wouldn't let them in the house.
I've now had DM and DBrother on the phone about how mean I was to DN as I 'made' them drive 90minutes and shut the door in their face. I put dm right who now agrees with me.
Aibu to think my Dsis was a bit of a bint and it's her own fault for not listening. Why don't people listen? Ahh
Sorry for the rant.