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Is this dress ok for a wedding?

66 replies

Magmatic80 · 27/09/2018 05:00

Reading another thread, and now in a worry. Going to a wedding shortly, and planning on wearing dress in similiar pattern to this. Knee length, high neckline, cap sleeves. Is it too white? Wedding in USA and will be hot if that makes a difference. I do have an alternative that is dark colours, but I feel ‘nicer’ in this one!

Is this dress ok for a wedding?
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CurlyWurlyTwirly · 27/09/2018 09:15

Unless it’s a linyhop style wedding and the bride has her heart set on a blue floral dress, I cannot see how the bride will be upset by the OP’s dress

MissConductUS · 27/09/2018 09:16

I'm an American and I think the dress is lovely and perfectly appropriate for a wedding. The bride will appreciate the fact that you're skipping the fascinator. Smile

BelindaTheBadger · 27/09/2018 09:17

I’m really strict about what I wear to weddings, but even I think that’s fine. The blue is dark enough and covers enough of the white that it’s barely white at all, especially with a navy shrug.

Figural · 27/09/2018 09:17

It's lovely and you feel good in it. Perfect. I'd definitely wear it.

BelindaTheBadger · 27/09/2018 09:18

I mean if you’re really worried though and will feel self conscious just wear something else. But I think it’s fine.

TeeniefaeTroon · 27/09/2018 09:27

I wore a very similar dress to a wedding last month, no one batted an eyelid.

BelindaTheBadger · 27/09/2018 09:29

If you’re asking if I’d wear it though; no I wouldn’t. But I err on the side of caution. If it’s a bit borderline I wear something else. Depends on the wedding as well though. How well do you know everyone?

shearwater · 27/09/2018 11:03

I have worn a cream trouser suit to a wedding, with a black shirt, hat and shoes. This breaks several Mumsnet wedding rules but all I got at the time were lovely compliments about my outfit.

shearwater · 27/09/2018 11:08

Looking at my wedding photos, several of my close friends and relatives have ivory coloured dresses on, with floral patterns. Including my DM.

Obviously I should have banned them, the massive upstagers!

Or, you know, NOT.

Fatasfook · 27/09/2018 11:10

It looks like a teacup. I’d choose something else.

TrudeauGirl · 27/09/2018 11:16

Some of Mumsnet can be strange about any sort of white on a dress for a wedding. But that dress is amazing, you'll look so pretty.

enike · 27/09/2018 11:52

it is a lovely dress, but I dont think its a proper dress for a wedding..
not "big ocassion" enough
(but its only my opinion) I would wear something more elegant

Bluelady · 27/09/2018 12:00

Lovely frock and perfectly suitable. My step DiL wore a black meringue on her wedding day so just about everyone looked more bridal than she did.

SenecaFalls · 27/09/2018 18:39

I'm American and go to lots of weddings. And I'm in the Deep South which tends to be more traditional about these things. That dress is fine for a wedding that is not black tie. No one in the US will think that a dress with a pattern on a white or cream background is anywhere close to dressing like the bride.

April241 · 27/09/2018 18:43

Beautiful dress, definitely wear it.

We’re getting married shortly and I couldn’t give a toss if my guests turned up in their own wedding dresses Grin.

ApolloandDaphne · 28/09/2018 10:07

It is lovely and I think it is elegant.

People on MN have very weird views about what should or should not be worn to a wedding.

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