Had a lovely weekend away this weekend with dh and ds's and extended family. Set off back last night at about 7pm, 2 hour journey home. Probably should have left sooner but they were having fun playing in the garden and as it had rained most of the time we thought - ok. Ds1 (11) and ds2 (9) start making up silly songs and generally dicking about in the car. This is not unusual, and not a problem, but after an hour and a half or so we said ok, quieten down now, it's getting a bit late and ds3 would normally be asleep by now, also it was getting louder to the point where we couldn't have a conversation. They wouldn't calm down. Started flashing torches about, doing silly voices when we said to be quiet, which then escalated into me shouting and them being out and out rude. ds2 has since apologised. ds1 is unrepentant and despite me trying to talk to him about it this morning and this evening persists in saying that there was nothing wrong with them 'playing' and that me and dh were 'being annoying'. I can't get through to him and it just seems so petty that such an insignificant incident as them messing about a bit in the back of the car has turned into a major row! I have said to him that it's not the mucking about so much as the lack of respect - I feel increasingly that he has no respect for either me or dh and I don't know why that is or how to change it. He is sulking now in his room and probably won't eat now this evening. Help.
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