To start a thread on here to stop me shouting at dh?

[Fuminglily]

I'm really hormonal. I had a massive row with dd18 earlier and she called me mental, said I had mental health issues. Dh just sat and listened. This was a few hours ago, dd has gone to work in the pub and dh, dd14 and me are sitting in the sitting room watching Harry Potter. I'm still so angry dh says I over reacted and doesn't have a problem with dd saying I'm mental.

I really want to have it out with him but I know it will just make things worse and upset dd14 so I am starting this thread to busy myself and take my mind off it.

I'm really worked up over it and feel like crying so hoping this will take my mind off it and calm me down.

Thank you. Yes it probably would have got sorted. Tbh all I wanted was them to look at me and say yes I will get this done and I will take responsibility for this. But because they think I am nagging they just will not do this, so then I worry that I'll end up doing everything myself

Context is a wonderful thing, YANBU she is.

I also second (third/forth etc.) her getting her own stuff ready, at 18 she should know better.

And yes (@Troels) the DH should have backed the OP up.