I had a kitchen appliance. A small one, bought with vouchers we got as a wedding gift. It broke. I kept meaning to get a new one (£20 or so it'd probably cost) but never got round to it. Mentioned it again this evening to DH and how I might look for one on my day off this week. He said maybe I shouldn't as people had been asking what I might like for my birthday in a few weeks time, and that was one of the things he'd mentioned to them.
For context, we're not short of money and could very easily afford a new one without really thinking about it. And it's my 40th. AIBU to not want a gift that's a replacement for a kitchen appliance we bought jointly? He seemed very put out that I didn't seem pleased. I wouldn't have minded if it was something a bit more frivolous for the kitchen as I like cooking, but it's something very dull. His family are also very big on knowing exactly what people want for their birthday. I could have given him some ideas of books, perfume, fancy shower gel, all sorts of ideas. And believe me, none of his recent birthday present requests have been practical.