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Who should pay for 17 year old's petrol?

76 replies

ostical · 21/09/2018 20:04

The 17 year old or parents? It's to get to college. It's costing £30 a week. The college is around 18 miles away, had no choice for the course.

Curious who should pay?

OP posts:
pinkhorse · 21/09/2018 20:05

Is there a bus that could get them there?

rookiemere · 21/09/2018 20:06

If the parents can readily afford it then they should pay as it's for an education. If money is tight then can 17 year old get a part time job to cover it ?

cadburyegg · 21/09/2018 20:06

The parents.

DontBoreMe · 21/09/2018 20:06

Who needs to get to college? Who is driving?

Furrycushion · 21/09/2018 20:06

For education, I would (did). For fun he/she should.

Justanotheruser01 · 21/09/2018 20:07

What financial income does the student have? I'd certainly say if they are working they should or at least contribute but if not i would say parents though i would expect no unncessary journeys no detours to pick friends up and to earn it around the house or something

celtiethree · 21/09/2018 20:07

The parents

KeiTeNgeNge · 21/09/2018 20:07

If there is no bus - parents

Longdistance · 21/09/2018 20:08

I paid for my own petrol at that age, as I also had a part time job that paid for my fun nights.

VimFuego101 · 21/09/2018 20:08

If there's a cheaper mode of transport then driving is a luxury, and the child should not expect the parents to pay for it. But if I lived out in the middle of nowhere and there was no way of getting to college other than driving, I would pay for my child's petrol costs - at 17 I think parents should still cover the cost of attending school/ college.

TeenTimesTwo · 21/09/2018 20:09

The parents.
DD1's travel passes for a year cost the best part of £1000 each of her 2 years.

But extra gadding around petrol would perhaps be a different matter.

Banana770 · 21/09/2018 20:09

I would say the parents if the car and/or insurance was paid for by the student. If everything else had been paid for by you, I’d probably say go halves on it.

BlueJava · 21/09/2018 20:10

The parents if the 17 yo is going to college. If it's out for fun they pay.

Celestia26 · 21/09/2018 20:12

My parents paid for any travel costs related to education and I will do the same for my children.

Iloveacurry · 21/09/2018 20:12

If there’s no other college nearer, surely the parents would pay the petrol costs. I assume the 17 year old would have a Saturday job so wouldn’t need pocket money?

whiskeysourpuss · 21/09/2018 20:12

if the 17yo's student finance such as loans/bursaries are determined by the household income ie the parents income then it's up to the parents to assist with money for travel to & from education

MacosieAsunter · 21/09/2018 20:13

The parents. A school child shouldn't be paying for necessities out of their own pocket.

Before anyone corrects me, sub 18 is a child, a form of education is mandatory until 18

Iamablanket · 21/09/2018 20:13

Parents as still get child benefit for child while in education. For leisure activities teenager pays

Alpacanorange · 21/09/2018 20:14

Who bought the lessons and the car ?
Depends really, if you can afford it, you should, if you are struggling they will have to get a job.

FreudRogersBeck · 21/09/2018 20:15

Isn't this what child benefit is for?

What's wrong with the bus?

mum11970 · 21/09/2018 20:16

We pay ds (20) and dd (17) insurance but they pay their own fuel costs.

IHaveBrilloHair · 21/09/2018 20:17

The parents, but also can the 17yr old not get a part time job?

greendale17 · 21/09/2018 20:18

Parents

dancingintherain1111 · 21/09/2018 20:19

Does the 17 yr old have a job?

HerRoyalNotness · 21/09/2018 20:21

Parents. If they could get the bus would you pay?

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