Not attracted to DP anymore. He makes me feel sick.

[BananaBoat99]

DP has become a bit gross of late. Constant farts. Constant burps. Constant throat cleaning. Plus his snoring keeps me clearing all night every night. It is all infuriating and I feel like I am becoming less and less attracted to him because of it.

How do I fix? Do I just outright tell him? Do I learn to live with it? It's driving me insane to the point that sex is off the cards pretty much permanently.

Don't know what to do. He's the same person, he just doesn't care about manners anymore.

I was going to ask if you were pregnant and you are so there you go.

Let him know that. You're being a bit extra sensitive just now but would he mind xyz I was constantly telling my dp how smelly he was and he was tolerable until he heard me tell my mum she was smelly too.

In a few weeks you'll see him hold your new born and you'll fall back in love all over again

BananaBoat99 Thu 20-Sep-18 08:19:52
I'm a black woman with West Indian heritage, and I didn't have a clue it was a racist term. I thought it was a boat...

No. 'Straight off the banana boat' is probably a reference to the windrush boats.

I hate vaping. DH stopped smoking, which he did very discreetly and always outside. Always cleaned his teeth after. Then he started vaping and the bloody thing is never out of his hand. I HATE the smell of it and it's all over the house and all over him I can smell it when he breathes out at night in bed. So I'm with you totally OP. I wish he'd go back to smoking. It's driving me crazy (and i'm not pregnant). I talk to him about it and he goes outside to vape, for like 2 days, then it's inside again. Hate it, hate it, hate it