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To not give a fuck how much of a shit person I have been this week??

36 replies

martian1990 · 14/09/2018 16:36

I’m loosing my fucking mind I swear.

It started on Sunday- MIL came down for Sunday dinner. Criticised my cooking, our new kitchen (we’ve saved up a long time for it and cost a fortune so while it is a first world problem it was upsetting) and as usual tried to taking over parenting my DC. I ended up losing my shit with her and kicking her out. DH got caught in the middle which made me feel shitty.

DH has been away working this week, and will be gone this weekend visiting his brother and some childhood friends. A 100% deserved/earnt trip for him- he more than pulls his weight when he is home.

We have 2 kids- DS (8, just started Y4) and DD who is 21 months. DS is a mummy’s boy, DD is a daddy’s girl through and through- so I’m sure you fellow mummies to daddy’s girls can imagine what my week has been like with her.

I’m not ashamed to admit I’ve used the television as a babysitter more than once this week- I’m also not ashamed of telling the woman who tutted at me for leaving DD sat in her pram watching Cinderella while I dried my hair after swimming to fuck off and mind her own business. I’m sure she would preferred a happy toddler to one having a full blown meltdown in the changing room.

Nor am I ashamed to admit that we have had a takeaway twice this week, on the days I have come home after a 10 hour shift to find the house needed tidying and I needed to wrestle 2 overtired children into bed.

DD has been in meltdown mode over the littlest thing all week. I’m literally exhausted. She hasn’t slept for more than 4 hours at a time all week- and usually goes from 7pm-7.30/8am

I called my mum this morning begging her to take them both for a night- a choice she regretted taking 10 minutes after leaving the house because there was a traffic jam on the motorway and DD was having a meltdown.

But I don’t give a fuck. Because I’m sat on the sofa watching a film I’ve been meaning to watch for nearly 2 years with a large glass of wine and a dominos on route Grin

Just got to get through one night with the devil spawn tomorrow and DH will be home Hmm

OP posts:
Anyakatemar · 14/09/2018 17:58

If Cinderella woman even actually tutted it’s probably because she didn’t like listening to Cinderella or for some other reason, not to judge your parenting.

The fact that you’d jump to that particular conclusion immediately means you likely do give a fuck about your (perceived) faults .

Most people don’t give a shit how other people raise their children (barring abuse etc of course)

DastardlyAndMuttley · 14/09/2018 18:02

Good work op, enjoy you're Wine and🍕

Mumof1DS · 14/09/2018 18:05
Flowers

Get Cake to go with it. Sounds like a horrendous week Wine

Kintan · 14/09/2018 18:08

Yay for your mum coming to the rescue! Hope you enjoy the peace and quiet :)

CatboySpeed · 14/09/2018 18:11

Enjoy OP!

MrsMozart · 14/09/2018 18:12

Can I come I join you pliz.

EnglishRose13 · 14/09/2018 18:13

I'm mostly just jealous. Enjoy.

WipsGlitter · 14/09/2018 19:00

Throwing your mil out and ranting at some random woman ShockConfused

Two takeaways? Meh. Who cares.

Sunshineface123 · 14/09/2018 19:06

You don't sound like a shit person at all! What's wrong with bit of Cinderella?! Enjoy the pizza and an early night.

CheshireSplat · 14/09/2018 19:09

OP that made me laugh. I didn't see that happy ending coming. Have a great evening!!!

Cleebope2 · 14/09/2018 19:44

What’s the movie?

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