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Asking what's pissed you off today!

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Timeisslippingaway · 11/09/2018 21:38

Walked into my son's room to put him to bed and notice he has drawn on his shelves in felt tip pen for the third time in 2 days and tried to cover it up with his brothers school clothes! Gave him into trouble and what did his fucking dad say?... "Well it's your fault for buying him pens". What the actual fuck, he can't be trusted to have some pens and not draw on the furniture! He has been told not to do this countless times, I even made him clean it himself yesterday. I'm not even pissed at my son I'm pissed at his dad. He had a whole big argument with me over it! My son is 4 and a half and is at school, surely he can be trusted to not draw on the furniture?

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TheNumberfaker · 11/09/2018 21:56

Same thing as for the last 2 years... a fraudulent referendum where me dude seriously broke electoral law is still being used as the basis to continue with Brexit. I don’t know what pisses me off more: that Brexit is continuing or that most people seem apathetic to or ignorant of the devastating consequences!

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Timeisslippingaway · 11/09/2018 21:56

@Lethaldrizzle

I'm pissed at his dad more than him.

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BlopPop · 11/09/2018 21:57

My new kitten shat outside of the litter tray (legs in arse out), stood in it and then wiped it on the walls in a very poor attempt to cover his shit with litter

DS locked me out of the house when I put the bins out and I had to climb through the kitchen window to get back in

DS pissed on the bathroom floor this morning, I only realised when I stood in it while wearing socks

DH came home from work early and didn't bring us any dinner - which he always does when he finishes work early

TheNumberfaker · 11/09/2018 21:57

*me dude is obviously one side!

MrsTennyson · 11/09/2018 21:59

I was pissed off that I had to walk my toddler past a bunch of druggies smoking something out of a crack pipe on our favourite route home from nursery. London life eh.

BlopPop · 11/09/2018 22:00

Also OP a 4 year old can't really be trusted with pens. Sorry but your DH is right in some respect, he should have them but shouldn't have them in his bedroom unsupervised, maybe downstairs to be used on the dining table while you or his dad are there?

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Timeisslippingaway · 11/09/2018 22:01

@Idontbelieveinthemoon

That must have felt good when he realised who you were 😂

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TheGateauIsInTheChateau · 11/09/2018 22:02

Honestly?

That my DD will not stop crying unless she’s in my arms. I can’t sit down whilst I hold her either. She makes this really irritated face and starts to wriggle and cry if I sit down. I’m absolutely shattered. I hate how irritated I get with her too. She’s really cute and I love her.

DH is at a work event tonight, they told everyone food would not be provided so he figured it must be an early one then... it only got started at 8. Poor bugger only got 45 minutes sleep last night and has a lot on his mind. Seems bloody mean/foolish to organise such a late activity with no food? Am now worried about him driving home.

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Timeisslippingaway · 11/09/2018 22:03

@BlopPop

See my pp about them being in the drawing cupboard and his sneaking one out and then covering it. Really of his teacher can trust him not to draw on the walls at school I think maybe I should be able to expect him not to draw on the furniture at home.

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birdladyfromhomealone · 11/09/2018 22:04

That my son chose to move 300miles away to live next door to his in-laws and doesnt understand that we would be upset by that!

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Timeisslippingaway · 11/09/2018 22:05

@TheGateauIsInTheChateau

My youngest was like this, he spent most of the first year of his life on my hip. It was infuriating. He just wouldn't let me put him down or he just screamed the whole time, plus he was bloody massive.

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Wheresthel1ght · 11/09/2018 22:13

I am tired and grumpy today and in pain so lots have things have pissed me off...but the main one being my own attitude to a kid at dd's school who I shall call A. I cannot find anything redeeming to like her.

Dd is friends with A but A has some very nasty and spiteful characteristics. I know that at 5 most of the spiteful crap she comes out with has been picked up at home.. One of her parents behaves in exactly the same way and is A's primary carer. But she is hurting my dd and being awful to her when poor dd has done nothing - play date yesterday which I supervised and A was vile to dd.

As much as I know A is not entirely to blame I am REALLY struggling to find something to like about her and that is pissing me off as dd likes her and I am friendly with her other parent...

sproutsandparsnips · 11/09/2018 22:19

It took me an hour and a half extra to get to work last night and an hour extra to get back this morning because of motorway closure, so I am very tired (though silver lining not in work tonight).
Ds (8) has pushed my buttons and I haven't covered myself in glory.
Dh car has broken and he is expecting to use my car to go to work on my days off meaning I will not be able to do what I had planned (I know this is selfish and I get it's necessary but I'm allowed to be pissed off)!

LunaLovegoodsRadishes · 11/09/2018 22:20

Amazon told me a copy of the new Spiderman game I ordered ages ago would comd today, but Royal Mail failed to deliver said game, so my gamer family are obviously pissed off with me that this has happened, and I am cursing Royal Mail's tardy ways and general shittiness.

I am also pissed off with London buses for "only" putting on 3x 356 buses an hour, and pissed off with myself because my parents live in the country and get one bus every two hours so wtf am I being so precious?

lifechangesforever · 11/09/2018 22:22

That DH just goes to bed every night.. whereas I have a 1001 things to do before contemplating it. He can't even lock the door..

UpstartCrow · 11/09/2018 22:26

lifechangesforever You know some knob is going to say 'let him get burgled, that'll learn him''.

Neighbour has left their cat out in the rain, again. Cat is sitting in a tub of compost with his nose pressed to the glass. Staring at me.

preggersteach · 11/09/2018 22:27

Had an awful witching hour (or 4) with 6 week old ds, finally got him to settle after him having no sleep all day so cranky and fussy as hell. Dh looks up from his phone in bed and says I have put him down on wrong side so he'll have a funny shaped head. Fuming. He's asleep right now and I didn't think it would happen at all today!

ContessasGulagSpaDay · 11/09/2018 22:28

My fucking stupid husband boring on about how the Equality Act is exclusionary and unfair and how women just need to accept the fact that single sex spaces will be eradicated. He keeps on saying "But it's EXCLUSIONARY" in his stupid voice with his stupid face. Yes, that's the fucking point you arsehole.

Mum2jenny · 11/09/2018 22:29

You can get washable marker pens. We have them.

ThanosSavedMe · 11/09/2018 22:31

I’m pissed off with being invisable at work.

My colleague in my team doesn’t listen to a word I say and doesn’t do what she needs to do

Other colleagues not following procedures and formats making my life so much more difficult.

I’ve had it.

UpstartCrow · 11/09/2018 22:32

ContessasGulagSpaDay ltb.
Tell him they are inclusionary, they include the people who are supposed to be in them - women.

Sparklywolf · 11/09/2018 22:34

Waiting for an operation and every new medication I'm put on has a side effect of raising blood pressure or blood sugars, really pissed off at GP who keeps having a go at me for my rising levels!

MaggieSimpsonsPacifier · 11/09/2018 22:37

DH snoring.

Oh the rage.

Nunyabusiness · 11/09/2018 22:37

I've recently made a lifestyle change that means ONE NIGHT a week I'm out of the house. I arrived home at 9.30 to find husband plonked on the sofa, beer in hand, watching football. The kitchen is a tip - the dishwasher that was turned on before we left this morning is still full and the dirty plates are scattered over the work surfaces, the bin needs putting out, there is a multitude of kids stuff all over the living room floor, the wash basket is overflowing, smallest child has evidently been given too much to drink too late as she's wet the bed...the list goes on and on. Sigh. Gives me the fucking rage.

confuseddotcom2018 · 11/09/2018 22:37

First day at college today and was given a group exercise. Three of us in the group, the other two both ignored me and didn't take into account anything I had to say to contribute to the exercise 😡😡😡. I am not looking forward to spending the rest of the year in their company

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