Locked out

[Sparklfairy]

Currently trying to sleep in my car as my dm has locked me out. I only went to get cigarettes. Sat outside in tears for over five hours freezing my tits off before she finally let me in the car. Now she won't even let me in/get me some clothes so I can leave. Literally have the clothes on my back. Not even any make up or a hairbrush

tin oh I could have whole thread on her but do not want to hijack. OP hope you are ok.

The bitch owes me over 13 grand. Do not tell me it's my fault

You ok?

I suspect today has been a drinking day. Unsurprising after the awfulness of last night.

Your mum owing you money is completely irrelevant - it doesn't make it possible for the two of you to live together harmoniously.

Get yourself sorted with somewhere safe to live and sue her for the money she owes you.

@SneakyGremlins Erm no she doesn't. Read the post properly. OP was self employed but apparently can't work now because of her DM....

OP, with your previous threads in mind too;

• you need to find somewhere new to live;
• you need to deal with your alcoholism.

You have had an awful few months and it sounds like it’s continuing to spiral on all fronts. You need a fresh start and a plan of action. I understand your feeling angry but you need to focus on your future, not the past (easier said than done ofc).

Sunnyday1203 that's exactly how I feel

I guess there's a lot more going on.

Did your mum even want you to move in with her?

Was it supposed to be for a particular amount of time & have ypu gone past that?

Have you been making any effort to move out at all?

Why can't you go out to work?

Are all the people trying to defend OP’s mother just missing the part where she’s locked OP out without any of her things except purse or phone? And refuses to let her have any of them? Not even some warm clothes or a blanket to sleep in the car with.

OP, I hope you’re OK today

"Are all the people trying to defend OP’s mother just missing the part where she’s locked OP out without any of her things except purse or phone? "

No-but it's obviously a very strange/unusual situation.

Op's mother is abusive so Op drinks when there-so why did she go there?

There's a massive backstory to this - OP has posted many times before with different names. It's hard to know if her Mum is abusive or simply at the end of her tether with her alcoholic daughter.

OP, you have had the same advice so many times. You need help with your alcoholism as a first step. Until then it's impossible for you to get yourself out of this cycle.