When you’ve let them know you’ve had a miscarriage.
I could be being totally unreasonable here. My friend had a baby and we’d arranged a time for me to come round to meet baby. I was 8 weeks pregnant and unfortunately I started to miscarry the baby several days before I was due to go round to see her. The day I was meant to go round I sent an honest text to say what had happened and that I was attending hospital that day (for medical management). She read the text and nothing was sent back.
Over a week later I got a response to say “so sorry, I read your text and forgot to reply. That’s a shame.”
I didn’t respond as I just didn’t know what to say back to her. I already have two children and have had other friends who’ve had miscarriages and I don’t think that would have been the response I’d have chosen to send them if the shoe was on the other foot, not would I have waited that amount of time to send a reply.
AIBU to just let the friendship slide l?