Are you serious?!
I've just gone on entitledto (to make sure I'm not nuts!) and did a 'dummy run' based on you having a 6 month old, partners earnings of £30k and you (rightly) get nothing! Except child benefit which has quite a high threshold.
You can AS if you like but you'll find I'm among the most socialist/leftist left wingers on mn and even I'm thinking you're a cf!
A - benefits are for those genuinely struggling which you are not
B - did you even think even cursorily about money BEFORE getting pregnant? I'm all for supporting families when things go belly up but have to say that I agree that couples should not PLAN to have DC if at that point they cannot afford them without claiming benefits intended for those struggling.
C - your comment that "I don't earn enough to merit going back to work and paying for childcare)"
Geez
i - you should have properly considered this before ttc
ii - it's not just YOUR wage that is included here - your partner is also 50% responsible for the costs of childcare when you BOTH work
iii as you're not married you would be mad to take too long out of work. You lose momentum in your career progression, lose pension contributions, promotion opportunities etc.
If you and your partner were to split (and the odds are quite high) IF your partner plays fair you'd get (based on £30k, usual contact arrangements of eow) £59 pw £255 pm child maintenance. It sounds like he is self employed/commission based earnings and so that makes it easier for him to fudge it so he could keep it to a minimum. Are you named as an owner of the house?
Why do you think you SHOULD be entitled to benefits?
"We've both paid enough tax the past 15 years to claim some back if it helps us live a bit more comfortably for a while" journalist? GF? Benefits aren't for people to "live a bit more comfortably" they're for people to survive! Downright offensive when there's many on these boards GENUINELY struggling using food banks etc
FYI - we ALL pay taxes! On utilities, food, clothes...
How old are you? How long have you been working?
"And how much are you costing the state for your pregnancy health care? Who will be paying for your child’s education, the state?" This too! Also roads, street lighting, libraries, dentists, policing, councillors, fire services, civil servants (tax men, municipal workers) etc etc
"We've both paid enough tax the past 15 years to claim some back" 😂😂😂trust me you REALLY haven't!