To think he's being vile?

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For context, I'm pregnant and sickness seems to be hitting me at night so I'm not sleeping very well.
DH snoring terribly last night (not his fault) so I didn't get much sleep and he's aware I'm super tired today.
Been throwing up a lot this evening and went to bed, just dozing off and DH comes in and wakes me up, I can handle that. I explained I'm trying to get back to sleep and DH puts on YouTube videos on his phone and keeps laughing loudly.
I say I'm going to sleep on the sofa as I am really tired and need some quiet .... DH goes crazy and says "get a grip you moody bitch"

I didn't respond as I was so gob smacked.

I'm now on the sofa too mad to sleep!!

So what do you think? AIBU to expect quiet and perhaps a little consideration in the bedroom when I'm trying to sleep after being sick... and we have a whole house for him to watch videos in, or should I lighten up???

I would be planning to leave him op, he won't 'get better' as many pp have mentioned, men like this all follow a script and this is just the start of an extreme downward turn.

I would mention to your MW that your are planning to do this, that he has started to become verbally abusive and she will point you in the right direction for your own therapy.
Then I would act as normal as possible and scrimp and save into a separate account for whatever bits you will need, especially if you plan to leave the home.
Don't think you can count on him for paying towards baby items etc, he will quickly change his tune once you leave.

I'm sorry it's got to this point at what should be a wonderful time for you

Some excellent advice given here Op 💐☕️
Been through the same and can vouch for that 😌