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vongreenberg · 2018-08-27T20:39:25+00:00

I flew business for the first time, put a piccie on fb. I’m normal middle class. An acquaintance who is hugely privileged and snobby, is a Lord, commented “now we all know this is the first time you’ve flown business”. Would you find it offensive? Anyone else I would laugh, but not him.

garethsouthgatesmrs · 27/08/2018 23:13

Business class is no biggy

People post pictures of their lunches on social media. A cheese salad is no biggy, I think business class deserves a bit of a mention in comparison.

YouOKHun · 27/08/2018 23:18

well, that’s what you get for posting your edited highlights on Bragbook.

TwoBlueShoes · 27/08/2018 23:32

Post back "Don't worry. I'm sure you'll get a chance to someday as well". That will really wind the twat up.

SummerIsEasy · 27/08/2018 23:36

We think getting extra legroom seats is a big deal. Just ignore the post.

SummerIsEasy · 27/08/2018 23:44

garethsouthgatesmrs

And cheese is so full of cholesterol that really no-one in their right mind would eat that these days: --stuffingfacefullofcheeseandbiccies-

TornFromTheInside · 27/08/2018 23:47

mmm cheese! Share the goodness!

MervynBunter · 27/08/2018 23:47

Life Peer, I assume.

rainbowsandsmiles · 28/08/2018 00:10

I'd probably make this face and then this

Oh, and then mentally give him one of these

Nothing wrong with posting a picture of you flying in business class.
As for those saying it's showing off, no it isn't - that's what FB is for,sharing what you're doing with friends!
If you don't like what your friends are posting, hide them or delete them!

Poppyinagreenfield · 28/08/2018 00:15

I’ve never flown business class. So now you can both laugh at me together instead. I don’t mind.

rainbowsandsmiles · 28/08/2018 00:15

If you're doing well in life, just enjoy it, but remember that many others aren't. It's best just to be humble. Even if you're not intending to show off, there's no need to mention it

So in other words, don't share anything as there's always going to be someone who has less and so you shouldn't post anything ever in case of offending?
Where does that stop then? Don't post pictures of being on days out with my kids, my childless friend might get upset.
Don't post pictures of your fancy holiday abroad on the beach as I can only afford a caravan in Skeggy this year and I might get offended at least I would if I took that attitude, but instead I feel pleased for people and like to see what others are up to. A window into others lives, so to speak.
If you get jealous or bitter about others easily, it's maybe not the place to be and a step away from social media maybe better.

TornFromTheInside · 28/08/2018 00:20

So in other words, don't share anything as there's always going to be someone who has less and so you shouldn't post anything ever in case of offending?
Where does that stop then? Don't post pictures of being on days out with my kids, my childless friend might get upset.
Don't post pictures of your fancy holiday abroad on the beach as I can only afford a caravan in Skeggy this year and I might get offended at least I would if I took that attitude, but instead I feel pleased for people and like to see what others are up to. A window into others lives, so to speak.
If you get jealous or bitter about others easily, it's maybe not the place to be and a step away from social media maybe better.

There is a world of difference between saying 'having a lovely time on the beach' and saying 'having a lovely time at the Miami Hilton 5 Star' which is what you'll often see with such posts.

It's the same with posting 'Just having a lovely drive in the BMW' - why mention the BMW? it's not relevant, it's stealth boasting.

DrFoxtrot · 28/08/2018 00:31

Post what you want on Facebook OP - someone somewhere will think you're showing off/ offending them/ being an arse for 'making memories'. You can't do right by everybody.

Enjoy your business class post it on Facebook and ignore any crappy comments.

Nettletheelf · 28/08/2018 00:53

He probably expressed what most of your Facebook friends were thinking.

rainbowsandsmiles · 28/08/2018 00:55

Post what you want on Facebook OP - someone somewhere will think you're showing off/ offending them/ being an arse for 'making memories'. You can't do right by everybody. Enjoy your business class wine post it on Facebook and ignore any crappy comments.

Well said.

Beeziekn33ze · 28/08/2018 00:56

OP -you describe Lord Sarky as an acquaintance rather than a friend. Do you really want to keep him on FaceBook? Just unfriend him.

rainbowsandsmiles · 28/08/2018 01:00

OP -you describe Lord Sarky as an acquaintance rather than a friend. Do you really want to keep him on FaceBook? Just unfriend him

This. This is why I have a tight FB and only have people I actually know in real life and also would happily stop and chat to in the street if I saw them.
Those that see your updates but don't really give a shit what you're up to, or will sit and judge, if you have any on there they're best off ditching.
That's where social media gets toxic - people getting jealous of others etc. Stick to people you know and know are nice.

LittlePaintBox · 28/08/2018 01:18

'Yes, it is the first time. So?'

daleya · 28/08/2018 02:41

Don't put anything on Facebook if you're not willing to cop a couple of bitchy comments. It's the internet and people are shit.

FeedingGiraffes · 28/08/2018 04:46

I do sometimes cringe a bit when people check in to business class lounges at airports or post that obligatory picture of their champagne on the armrest in business. It is boasting.

I typically travel economy but every now and then business (for work or a lucky upgrade). I never post it though.

But to be honest, I really only cringe at the frequent offenders who do this a lot. If someone who is typically humble posted as it was a massive one off or very special trip I would be really happy for them.

He was far more crass in what he said.

Somewhereoverthesanddune · 28/08/2018 04:59

I personally never post the 'champagne photo' but I have a lot of friends in the airline industry who fly business a lot and these pics are common. One friend must fly business several times a month and still does the pic everytime (he does one if he's in economy as well, it's not boasting, it's talking about his life). It's certainly not the case only first timers post the pic and even if that's the case, who cares? Surely it was just a bad joke?

MorseandLewis · 28/08/2018 05:04

That’s funny, you can always tell you is on their 1st 1st or 1st club as they take pictures. Posting them on Facebook for anyone over 21 is a bit weird though, it seems very Braggy and immature.

The comment was bitchy though.

AltheaorDonna · 28/08/2018 05:09

I don't get this at all. I have one fantastically loaded friend who is always posting up about her amazing trips. She isn't braggy at all, its just her life, and I love seeing her checking in to incredible places and googling the room rate. And my friends and family seem to be able to make nice comments if I post on my feed about doing anything fun and exciting, like going on holiday. So no, I don't want every one to be 'humble' on face book, where is the fun in that?

HappyEverIftar · 28/08/2018 05:41

I'd ignore him, is there a reason you've taken this to heart?

It's a shame that others have to comment so negatively all the time on social media. If this was me I'd be adjusting deleting these 'friends' on Facebook. I deleted fb last year and haven't looked back.

LifeHackQueens · 28/08/2018 05:53

It was bitchy but rise above it.

"Anyone else I would laugh, but not him."
Stop giving him 'head space'. You are giving this person too much importance in your life. Don't let this person make a habit of belittling you. You need limited contact.

SD1978 · 28/08/2018 05:53

Yes, it's offensive and meant to put you down. Either deformed, or limit your profile from them. For some people that's normal- great. For others it's a big treat and they want to share that on social media- also great. He was being a total arse