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AIBU to think IKEA should be shut down

227 replies

Catmum26 · 27/08/2018 16:23

every single time we walk into that shop we argue so bad i think a divorce is on the cards. Then when we get home and have to build the crappy furniture with their sub standard instructions we have yet another row. currently sulking whilst my husband is swearing and crashing about. please tell me it’s not just us!

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tillytrotter1 · 27/08/2018 19:52

The one at Lakeside should certainly be closed down, a scruffy place and hoards of abandoned screaming kids, and no, I don't go on Bank Holidays or any weekend. I always get lost or lose the will to live, it's the same the world over, I recall shopping in IKEA long before they came to the UK.

LunaLovegoodsRadishes · 27/08/2018 19:53

I have been to IKEA several times in Croydon, but as I don’t drive I have to be fairly determined to get there in order to make it before hell breaks loose. I always go mid-week when I have a day off so it’s a bit quieter. I rarely buy anything but love the cafe. Because it take dedication to get there and because he works thru the week, DH has yet to pop his ikea cherry. But I dissuade him because he has no patience and the journey would make him explode, never mind the actual browsing bit. He should never step foot in one unless IKEA have fire extinguishers at the ready. I prefer going on my own anyway.

Sadik · 27/08/2018 19:54

This is brilliant Grin I've never been to Ikea (nearest one is 100 miles away), but YABU to think it should be abolished, my ex-MIL still sends me fabulous biscuits & other random food items from there as peace offerings. What would my Christmas be without a tin of very broken (yet delicious) ginger biscuits and some lingonberry jam...

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EnthusiasmIsDisturbed · 27/08/2018 20:00

I love Ikea

But would never go at a weekend or bank holiday

Can always tell those they have just got together maybe moving in together or buying some extra cupboards for when the other stays. They look so happy and in love then the couples that are a few years post that time looking like they are wondering wtf am I doing with my life Grin

Best to go by yourself or a friend

IfyouseeRitaMoreno · 27/08/2018 20:02

For me the best thing about being single is being able to put an IKEA flatpack together without anyone giving you advice / trying to take over.

EnthusiasmIsDisturbed · 27/08/2018 20:04

I always fine ikea flat packs the easiest

Reminds me I have a bookshelf to put together Blush

dragonslair · 27/08/2018 20:07

I did my best ever Ikea trip during the world cup. I am not a football person, I did not know that England were playing Sweden. I went at 3pm. I WAS THE ONLY PERSON THERE. It was fantastic.

VoluptuaSneezelips · 27/08/2018 20:07

I hate shopping at Ikea so much my brother bought me this mug. Fellow Ikea haters might appreciate this song by The Lancashire Hotpots.

AIBU to think IKEA should be shut down
EnthusiasmIsDisturbed · 27/08/2018 20:14

dragonslair that sounds heavenly

Grin

Imagine having the kitchen area and market place to yourself is stuff of dreams

BeautifulPossibilities · 27/08/2018 20:16

Don't go with your other half! Go alone! It's so much easier taking my toddler than it is taking my DH!

If you are alone just ask for help from the staff loading and unloading trolleys. They'll also help you load your car. They'll also kind your trolley whilst you go get your car. Bliss.

GoatYoga · 27/08/2018 20:19

We went yesterday - it was horribly busy, but we did get a nice new TV cabinet for the conservatory.

BeautifulPossibilities · 27/08/2018 20:19

Also if you are going for a specific thing you can log in to the website and check the location in your particular store and therefore you know exactly where it is before you get there!

Thatssomebadhatharry · 27/08/2018 20:20

Our ikea goes like so...

Grand plans. Go to ikea. DH acts like he is my personal tour/shopping guide showing me around the rooms and what we can do in our home. He gets rather camp. Grin

We measure, discuss and then buy nothing but a new dish brush, some straws and a bag of mini dime bars. Often the queue is too big for these items so we leave them and maybe buy a hot dog.

Spanglylycra · 27/08/2018 20:23

Are you me?

We now don't go. We paid £40 delivery for a £30 set of drawers because we can't bear it.

I am going to hazard a guess you are talking about Ikea Wednesbury because I've been to others that aren't so bad.

PhilomenaButterfly · 27/08/2018 20:23

The row was with my dad for breaking DD's bed. He owes his DSis £100.

EnormousDormouse · 27/08/2018 20:26

We went to the new IKEA Exeter.
On Bank Holiday Monday.
In the rain.
You can imagine how well that went.

Givemeallyourcucumber · 27/08/2018 20:26

I have never been to IKEA and this thread just confirms another reason why I will never go.
Burn them all down!

KatharinaRosalie · 27/08/2018 20:27

This happens also in other furniture or DIY shops.

Benandhollysmum · 27/08/2018 20:27

AT last!!! Someone else who has full blown arguments in ikea ..

Thought I was the only crazy around 😁 you are not alone!!

KatharinaRosalie · 27/08/2018 20:28

(watch from 2:15)

TheDairyQueen · 27/08/2018 20:28

Ah memories.

I remember visiting one dark winter night - I watched one motorist stop his car on the way out to pull the windshield protector thingy off of another car. Clearly he thought it looked a nifty idea in place on de-icing his own windscreen and decided to make off with it.

Then there's the time I got to the car, didn't like the ice cream and flung the cone out of my window. That's what I thought, anyway. I discovered the next morning that my aim is shit, and I'd actually flung the bastard thing into the back seat and all over the parcel shelf.

Sadly, Ikea is not conducive to your mental health when you decide to stop medication for bipolar and decide to go just after new year.

The last time I visited Ikea, I ended up taking a total flaky mid-marketplace, becoming a shrewish harridan that was determined to drive the trolley into the ankle of any fucker who stood between me and the bistro. I had just finished a night shift the night before and had persuaded my mum to take me (because I was off my lithium and was flying high).

I just about remember trying to be seductive with the young and rather handsome man in yellow at the checkout (I swear lifting flatpack all day must've made him seem attractive in my unmedicated state), making lewd remarks about wanting to see his meatballs if he could handle my heaving bags, and my mother marching me out of the store by the arm in horror.

When I was still assembling the bastard Malm chest of drawers at almost half past eleven that night, I'd worked myself into a total lather and ended up at out of hours in a full blown bout of mania. The association (and the thought of Mr Yellow Six-Pack remembering me) has put me off ever going back.

EnormousDormouse · 27/08/2018 20:31

Oh yeah and you know people used to get snitty that you were all channelled round in one big crocodile ...well in the new Exeter one there seemed to be far more different routes and cut throughs.
Chaos! People meandering all over the place and going against the flow.
I felt slightly anxious - it is IKEA, I need to be herded.

drspouse · 27/08/2018 20:32

I went with a friend once, and DD aged 2. Apart from a few nappy changes and an attempted toy grab, it was bliss!

Everyoneiswingingit · 27/08/2018 20:42

We always enjoy Ikea.Cheap and stylish and cheap lunch after. Grin

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