My mil and dil look after my dc one day a week. I posted about this the other day - we hadn't started weaning yet and she had given them yogurt. It wasn't the yogurt that was the issue but the fact that she thought she didn't have to ask.
We went there for dinner yesterday and my mil said she had also had other pieces of fruit and that "we don't have to tell mammy and daddy everything do we?"
They are really good with dc but I find that annoying.
I've decided to become the same way. I used to message her all the time with photos of dc. Telling her what we had done today but now "we don't have to tell mil and dil everything do we?"
Mil has also started being quite bitchy. Before we had dc she used to always ask if we wanted a cup of tea for example and make it , bring it over. Now she's like - i'm sure she can handle making it herself.
I don't know but something's changed. But as I said they are very good with dc.