My mother has been staying. Aibu or am I being too sensitive?
We've never had a good relationship . Most of my childhood was spent taking the piss out of me for being conscientious with my school work, wanting to stick to the rules and being very very anxious.
She lives several hundred miles away and I stopped visiting her years ago as it was a lot of hassle with babies and toddlers and everything was on her terms, which made life with very young kids really hard work. (I.e. Let's go to this place for the day where there's no opportunity for naps, nothing to interest the kids , and a long travelling time).
She invites herself to our house. Since she's been here I've been organising days out for her and the kids, and trying to do fun things for us all, whilst also keeping up with work (I work from home) in the evenings. she's spent most of the time we're at home in her room or playing on her iPad, and is never very interested in chat with me. Thankfully a few visits ago I told her no piss taking, no jokes at my expense, and she's stuck to it.
She seems so uninterested in our lives, I don't know why she bothers coming up. She's barely interacted with the kids except reading them one story.
She's done her usual of eating all the snacks and booze and leaving the tiniest amount in the packet so she doesn't actually finish it, and leaving food smears over the kitchen and fridge.
I'm so tired of it all. Aibu or just over sensitive?