ExH hasn't got the best relationship with DD(14) - he's only seen her every other weekend for the last 3 years and her patience with him is very low.
He told her a while back that he'd be taking her on a foreign holiday this year so she contacted him yesterday to find out what's happening as it's only a couple of weeks away. It turns out his cat isn't well (they've known this for months) so he and his girlfriend have decided to stay in the UK so they can get back if needed. He did offer that just he and DD could go abroad but she really doesn't fancy a whole week with just him...
I've got a cat and get that they're part of the family, but DD is very much feeling less important than the cat now and quite understandably feels a bit put out, so my question is do I get involved and try to find something she's more likely to enjoy for her to suggest to him or do I leave them to it and just make sure she has stuff to look forward to afterwards if it's rubbish?