Have to be brief as he’s asleep but will wake up soon. Been with boyfriend about 6 months, we’re early 40s. We’re compatible, get on great, want same things etc. Have felt like I love him for a while and said it last night. He said ‘awww’ and cuddled me and then said ‘how do you know?’ To which I replied I just did. so obviously he doesn’t feel the same yet, or maybe he never will I guess. I wasn’t that surprised he didn’t say it back as he’s previously said it takes him ages to fall in love and he’s not sure he ever has been. Obviously long term I don’t want to be with someone who’s not in love with me but not sure at what point I should cut my losses! I don’t want to make a big deal of it with him but I’m not sure if I should just say nothing and wait, or ask him if he thinks his feelings are going that way or what. Please be nice!