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To think that applying cream to intimate areas in a communal changing room is too much?

66 replies

MsChandlerBong · 20/07/2018 21:34

In hotel and there is a communal pool change room for each sex. In the women's one day when I was drying my hair I saw a woman stark naked with her leg up on the bench applying cream to her vulva/labia. I wasn't staring at her I just glanced up as I head the door from pool open and was checking if it was my friend.

There are private changing cubicles/many toilets/shower cubicles less than 5 foot away from her.

I'm not offended I'm just confused why you'd do it in full view of everyone. Am I being a prude? I don't often go to pools/gyms with communal changing. So maybe I am out of touch with the norm? My local one is mixed sex and all single cubicles.

OP posts:
PrimalLass · 20/07/2018 23:39

I'll just say again, as on another naked thread, that comfortable in your own skin does not mean happy to be naked.

spudlet7 · 20/07/2018 23:44

Ewwwwwwww. No. Not for public eyes.

toocool4cats · 21/07/2018 09:52

It's a no no from me, put it away there's a love, nobody wants to see your inflamed labia . I bet she leaves the canestin cream in a prominent place too just waiting for someone to ask her about her latest thrush . Some people hey ....

ForalltheSaints · 21/07/2018 10:08

Why can't you sit down to do this?

Racecardriver · 21/07/2018 10:17

Did she at least wash her hands? Confused

itwasallveryfuckedup · 21/07/2018 14:34

This thread is properly making me laugh.

Putting in a moon cup is grim.

I was whacking in some bv cream the other night, legs spread, foot on the counter, using the applicator and all. My husband walked in chatting, stopped and just stared. Looked at me like I'd grown three heads and just kind of backed out. So can't imagine how you felt op.

NicoAndTheNiners · 21/07/2018 14:46

I was in the sauna at the gym once and fair enough it’s women only but people are normally in swimsuits. A woman came in naked, fair enough. And then proceeded to throughly moisturise her legs right up to the top, spreading her legs wide to get the insides done! I’m no prude but it seemed a bit unusual.

NicoAndTheNiners · 21/07/2018 14:48

When I said “insides” I mean insides of her thighs....not actually inside her vagina!

ggirl · 21/07/2018 14:54

you should've shouted over the hair dryer..."oi luv ..think you've missed a bit"

seriously that's just gross

SurfnTerfFantasticmissfoxy · 21/07/2018 14:58

YADNBU - that is utterly revolting.

LizzieSiddal · 21/07/2018 15:00

I to want to know if she washed her hands afterwards!

kalinkafoxtrot45 · 21/07/2018 15:01

I hate and avoid communal changing rooms and exhibitionists like this are one of the reasons!

wafflyversatile · 21/07/2018 15:05

Communal changing rooms are the devil's work full stop.

Batteriesallgone · 21/07/2018 15:13

I see I’m in the minority here but this wouldn’t bother me. I don’t like communal changing rooms but I love exhibitionists in them - if everyone is looking at them no one is judging my fat arse and saggy boobs.

As for seeing it myself. I have no shits to give. And surely for me to catch an infection she’d have to touch something which I then touch shortly after and then I caress my own vulva - doesn’t seem very likely to me. But perhaps I’ve missed something there.

PortiaCastis · 21/07/2018 15:14

I like the deep heat idea and why on earth does a fanny flaunter think folk want to see her preening her bits

Unfinishedkitchen · 21/07/2018 15:33

Nasty.

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