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Original poster

AIBU Nightmare neighbour trying to bully me!

32 replies

Usernamehere · 20/07/2018 11:18

So I have lived in my house for around 4 years. When I first moved into my house everything was fine. 2 weeks into my move my door knocks. My neighbour is stood there with her friend (who I know of but never spoken to or mixed with). My neighbour started screaming that I fancy her bf and they are trying for another baby. I stand there shocked obviously just moved in I don't even no who her bf is! I asked her who told u this so she turned to her friend (who I have never spoken to). Story quickly changed to another girl told the friend n the friend told my neighbour Chinese whispers bullshit. They left end of. So never really spoke to my neighbour after This, certainly never spoke to her bf. 4 years later still don't no his name. Other week my neighbour decided to write a fb status about me calling me slagging me off etc. The friend who mentioned above shared this status aswell! I'm not on fb so I never responded n had alot going on in my own life so I just ignored it. I have seen my neighbour since this status was wrote she's not looked at me or said anything so I think end of. Until last night when she came to my door kicking off I have been slagging her off n she's heard me from inside my home 😕. So I did own it n said yeh u been writing shit about me over fb what did u expect me to be alright with u after that bad enough u accuse me of fancying ur bf then u slag me off online now ur at my door but I'm the one in the wrong?? I had to walk inside as her young kids was there watching. Now I'm moving in the next 2, 3 weeks so I'm basically just holding out for my move. But AIBU here as I never wanted a problem n I just feel like she has been gunning for a problem with me since the day I moved in. Does all this go back to the boyfriend rumour? Some real hate there to say we never speak or anything I'm one of them if I have a problem with u I won't slag u off over fb ur my neighbour I would have respect n speak to u directly about whatever problem there is. Pissed right off bf is a minger aswell to top it off

OP posts:
Phosphorus · 20/07/2018 11:22
Confused
SockMatchmaker · 20/07/2018 11:25

She sounds deranged, keep your head down and be glad you’ll be away from her in a few weeks!

9amTrain · 20/07/2018 11:40

Fucking Hell

Frusso · 20/07/2018 11:43

She's unhinged. You're moving. Forget about it.

Original poster
Usernamehere · 20/07/2018 12:00

Thanks for replies this move is the only thing keeping me going at the min knowing I'm gunna be away from this. I have a disabled son myself so I don't really have much time for boyfriend stealing or Facebook shit. Anything to start a problem with me. Hate nasty insecure women. Thanks for responses

OP posts:
KinkyAfro · 20/07/2018 12:05

Class

fluffiphlox · 20/07/2018 12:09

Blimey. Move.

BrazzleDazzleDay · 20/07/2018 12:10

I had a nutjob neighbour like this too, I apparently fancied her caved in face toothless druggie man Hmm came at me one night with a knife while I was holding my newborn baby and she brought her 4 dc with her.

No advice really, but just keep away and count down to moving. Don't engage with them, you can't reason with stupid

TheQueef · 20/07/2018 12:11

I've read the OP twice and still confused.

You are moving out in three weeks? Avoid neighbours and get on with packing.

glintandglide · 20/07/2018 12:12

It’s not often I’m tempted to punch someone in the head but I think if I’d had a clear shot I might’ve been unable to resist her

She sounds nasty, stupid, and simple. Feel sorry for her next neighbours. Are you moving to a nicer area?

wellBeehivedWoman · 20/07/2018 12:14

Some people live for drama and will make it if they can't find it. She probably gets off on the idea that her boyfriend is an object of desire and is inventing scenarios to uphold that. She sounds awful. Luckily you're moving and won't have to deal with her any more!

catlady34 · 20/07/2018 12:21

bf is a minger aswell to top it off
pahahahaha

Shumpalumpa · 20/07/2018 12:26

I'm not on fb so I never responded n had alot going on in my own life so I just ignored it.

How did you hear about her FB status if you're not on FB?

Also, why were you talking about the neighbour so loudly in your home that she could hear you?

glitterbiscuits · 20/07/2018 12:28

Call Jeremy Kyle?

Original poster
Usernamehere · 20/07/2018 12:29

Brazzledazzleday that's awful! What a syko and yeh moving to a much nicer area cannot wait now tbh. N it's all pathetic but I will be away from this soon enough x

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8misskitty8 · 20/07/2018 12:30

Make sure you have a mail redirection set up so you don’t have to tell the new people moving in where you have moved too.

If she does track you down and continues to kick off then you should contact the non emergency police line as this is harrassment.

NewYearNewMe18 · 20/07/2018 12:35

September can't come soon enough

Hygge · 20/07/2018 12:48

I worked with someone like this once.

She was lovely, until the day her boyfriend called in to visit her at work and after that she hated us all because we were clearly 'after' him during the ten minutes he was in the room.

She left to work elsewhere shortly afterwards and it was a relief because you couldn't even say "nice weekend?" to her without being accused of fishing for information on the boyfriend.

Original poster
Usernamehere · 20/07/2018 12:49

Shumpalumpa I have other ppl who are on fb screen shot it n sent it to me via WhatsApp u don't need to be on fb to get the goss hahaha n tbh I think she's prob beyond Jeremy Kyle's help hahaha. I'm just glad I walked away when I did I'm not into arguing in front of anyones children. Made herself look like a twat now so fuck it hahaha x

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Springersrock · 20/07/2018 12:53

I had a neighbour like this for a while - they moved out about a year ago.

Constant drama llama-ing and storming round to shout at other neighbours for whatever perceived slight

I was bullying her son - I told him to stop climbing on the roof of my car one day

The final straw was when she came to shout at me for ‘bullying’ her son - I caught him climbing on the roof of my car so gave him a flea in his ear.

I lost my rag and told her to fuck off. Not my first hour admittedly, but she left me alone after that

I’d just hold on to the fact that you’re moving and ignore her. Sounds exhausting

SandyFagina · 20/07/2018 12:55

Do you live on the Chatsworth estate.

CrispsAndDip · 20/07/2018 12:56

On a completely seperate note, when do the children break up for summer?

Springersrock · 20/07/2018 12:56

And yes, all her female neighbours fancied her boyfriend apparently Hmm

He was such a catch - I answered my front door one day to 2 men with baseball bats looking for him.

foxyliz26 · 20/07/2018 13:04

She,s a nutter ! and an insecure nutter !

samantha1975 · 20/07/2018 13:06

Oh gawd, where are you moving from, just so we all know not to move to that area lol, good luck in your new place anyways.

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