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AIBU Nightmare neighbour trying to bully me!

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Usernamehere · 20/07/2018 11:18

So I have lived in my house for around 4 years. When I first moved into my house everything was fine. 2 weeks into my move my door knocks. My neighbour is stood there with her friend (who I know of but never spoken to or mixed with). My neighbour started screaming that I fancy her bf and they are trying for another baby. I stand there shocked obviously just moved in I don't even no who her bf is! I asked her who told u this so she turned to her friend (who I have never spoken to). Story quickly changed to another girl told the friend n the friend told my neighbour Chinese whispers bullshit. They left end of. So never really spoke to my neighbour after This, certainly never spoke to her bf. 4 years later still don't no his name. Other week my neighbour decided to write a fb status about me calling me slagging me off etc. The friend who mentioned above shared this status aswell! I'm not on fb so I never responded n had alot going on in my own life so I just ignored it. I have seen my neighbour since this status was wrote she's not looked at me or said anything so I think end of. Until last night when she came to my door kicking off I have been slagging her off n she's heard me from inside my home 😕. So I did own it n said yeh u been writing shit about me over fb what did u expect me to be alright with u after that bad enough u accuse me of fancying ur bf then u slag me off online now ur at my door but I'm the one in the wrong?? I had to walk inside as her young kids was there watching. Now I'm moving in the next 2, 3 weeks so I'm basically just holding out for my move. But AIBU here as I never wanted a problem n I just feel like she has been gunning for a problem with me since the day I moved in. Does all this go back to the boyfriend rumour? Some real hate there to say we never speak or anything I'm one of them if I have a problem with u I won't slag u off over fb ur my neighbour I would have respect n speak to u directly about whatever problem there is. Pissed right off bf is a minger aswell to top it off

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stevie69 · 20/07/2018 13:11

Hmmmm Hmm

GreenProvence · 20/07/2018 13:22

Having watched a few of those neighbours from hell TV programmes, I’ve deduced that both parties are usually as bad as eachother. It’s a continuing he said/she said regardless of who started it.

I admit I had a neighbour once who ended up confiscating my kids toys if a scooter laid even an inch across her front path and complained to the council I was making noise after midnight in my attic (attic was permanently padlocked shut by landlord).

It was a row of pretty terrace cottages with a shared front path, and when I first moved in she complained the previous tenant also a single mother like me, was all sorts of horrors. I suspect she says the same about me after I left. Homeowners don’t seem to like it when tenants move in next door, especially not single mothers.

Downtheroadfirstonleft · 20/07/2018 13:28

School's out for summer....

flumpybear · 20/07/2018 13:36

I take it she's not got a job - people like that have too much time in their hands and not enough real life stuff to do!

Usernamehere · 20/07/2018 13:37

It's the Rochdale area where I'm living so supose that says it all really hahaha n omg few of these comments made me realise I'm not on my own and this shit happens quite alot lol. Fuck it I have my son to look after and my move to look forward to. Hope everyone has a great summer

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findthegap · 20/07/2018 13:45

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milliemolliemou · 20/07/2018 13:49

I'd be tempted to tell your letting agency about the problem. After you've moved. Until then, just ignore.

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