OH wants to go on holiday at xmas with his parents, I do not want to go.
It will be our babys first Xmas and I wanted it to be special at home, I also don't fancy going abroad with a baby that will be crawling or just walking by then... also would mean we don't see any of my family over the Xmas period.
He has said he will still go even if I don't AIBU to think this is so wrong? He just says I can go if I want and DD won't even know it's Xmas anyway