To think this about consent issues when someone has an affair.

[DryGrass]

A cheater continues to have sex with their spouse during their affair.

The cheater knows full well that their spouse would not consent to sex if they knew the cheater was shagging someone else.

Given that there's a promise not to shag other people in the marriage service, it would be reasonable not to have to check before each shag.

So the cheater has knowingly had non consensual sex with their spouse?

So is that sexual assault?

Feeling violated does not automatically mean sexual assault. I felt violated when my hose was broken into.