Gave out invitations at school for DS's birthday party yesterday which was going to be on his actual birthday, we had booked and organised everything already but but only gave out the invites yesterday.
Another child in Ds's class (A) didnt invite ds to his party so we didnt know that his party was already arranged for the same day, their invites being sent out last friday. Child A's mum replied that A's party was on the same day so we cant have the party then anyway but that A will hopefully be able to come to the new date.
Rearranging the date would mean a lot of stress for us, the party wouldnt be able to be on his actual birthday and would mean family and friends who are travelling quite far would have to change plans also maybe mean DH wouldnt be able to be there as hes working away a lot in the next months.
AIBU to not change it? Some kids who got A's invite first will go to A's party which is fine with DS as he knows his two best school friends are comming to his and hes invited kids from out of school