AIBU to hate my boring husband?!!

[PickleLickle83]

I love a holiday, but my husband never wants to go on one and even the discussion of booking one turns into a massive row...AIBU to hate my husband and seriously consider booking a holiday to take the kids away without the boring f**ker to prove a point? He always blames money (we earn around £85k between us so not exactly poor!) What would you do, leave the boring git at home and go without him or just book the holiday with him included and just tell him that it's happening?!!!

I agree, PickleLickle83. My wife's a real boring twat so when the fucker doesn't want to spend household money on something, I just go over the bitch's head and do it anyway.

Whoah dancing that seems harsh

How so, passthestarmix. It's the exact same way the OP has spoken about her husband. What's good for the goose etc.

It wasn’t the action just the terminology, I wouldn’t like dh to talk about me like that. I know some couples do talk like that out in the open and it’s all in jest though.

Holidays are important for your children as much as anything - how many of us have wonderful memories of holidays as a kid? I see it as my job to give my kids a fab childhood.. and in my book that means taking them on holiday. Fine if you are struggling to pay the bills, but if you can afford it then go!

Why aren't you picking this up with the OP, then, Starmix, who has spoken about her husband using the same language? Double standards much?

Dancing I didn’t see the op calling her husband a ‘bitch, ‘fucker’ and a ‘twat.’ I haven’t read whole thread and just caught your comment. I don’t mean to cause you offence.

And as I said a lot of couples do use those words for each other. If dh did for me though I wouldn’t be happy lol.

All at same time *

You’re right though op does use one of the terms. It didn’t seem that bad and more in fun though. I guess i just caught your comment with afew of them close together and way it was phrased made me think whoah lol I wouldn’t mess with dancing. I wasn’t meaning it in a serious way and it was all in good fun.