Big history with this friend, basically i had a very close friendship with someone (D) and then a few years ago this new friend (G) became close with us both. We hung out, had kids the same age, socialised, meals out etc. Anyway D annoyed me over something trivial to do with the kids and wrongly I vented by text to G and she screeshotted it all and sent it to D. D was in a bad place, marriage breaking and miscarriage threat and she just couldn't deal with this too and shut down. We talk occasionally now but our friendship has never been the same since because understandably D felt betrayed. I take responsibility for this fully but it was hard as both D & G turned against me and virtually ignored me after this for months.
G moved house a year ago and out of the blue asked to.borrow by £350 petrol lawnmower. I was so pleased she contacted me and thought maybe we could be friends again and lent it to her. A few months passed and I needed it back. I asked several times and had lots of yes I bring it but it never materialised. Then she said she had lent it to a friend, then her dad, then eventually a few weeks ago she said it had stopped working so she threw it out. I had only ever used it once!
I asked why she didn't check with me so I could try and fix it, no answer. I asked her to contribute to a new one and got a load of abuse back about what a horrible person I am and now she has blocked me. We see each other on school runs and she ignores me.
So now I have lost both my friends and my lawnmower! Aibu to think G deliberately ruined my friendship with D (I know it was my fault but she sent screenshots and was gleeful at our friendship dying) and that she is a user and horrible person?