“I pay you maintenance” - AIBU?

[MightyMagnificentScarfaceClaw]

Separated from Ex for a couple of years. DCs live with me, he has them EOW. He pays child support at the CSA minimum level - in fact he tells them he has DCs 3 nights and pays that amount when actually he only has ever had them 2 nights.

Ex thinks I should provide all clothes. He collects them from school Friday afternoon on his weekend and thinks I should send clothes for the whole weekend in their bags. I think he should buy a few items and keep them at his house. I pack a bag for them when he has them for longer in the holidays but for weekends I think that’s his responsibility. AIBU?

Buy a load of T-shirts that say "Mummy's girl", "I love my mum" etc and send those for time at his house.....

londonmummy that is my kind of passive aggressive

Yup a 4 pack of cheap my mum rocks t shirts, pants, shorts etc. Cheap as possible. With an understanding that anything that goes to his house will be singing your praises.