My DS's have been invited to a birthday party that is taking place tomorrow. My husband unexpectedly has the day off work, this rarely happens on a weekend. We'd like to go out for the day but i feel guilty about not sending the boys to their friends party. The same child had a party last weekend, which my boys did go to so wouldn't be taking a card or present to this second one (childs parents have split up and when mum said she was doing a party dad decided he wanted to do one also). So would ibu to text the dad tomorrow and send our apologies and spend the day with my husband?