I was also told by a MW that babies can’t suffocate breastfeeding. I have big boobs and had expressed a concern, this was her response.
I have to say I did not believe her as it is quite obvious that it could happen - probably not common but definitely possible, as clearly anything which can block baby’s nostrils and mouth can suffocate them.
BUT if you were exhausted, maybe under effect of drugs, you might just take the reassurance without really questioning.
Very sad. Don’t think people should be too harsh on the parents. Unlikely case would be going forward if there wasn’t some likelihood of success in the action. Sounds like their kid has very significant needs, no wonder they feel they should attempt to secure funds to meet them.
And while the NHS is wonderful we need to stop the whole thing of pretending it, and its staff, are beyond reproach and accountability. It’s just not the case. No doubt lack of resource doesn’t help but they still need to be held to appropriate standards. Litigation is the only meaningful way of doing this in many cases as the internal processes for complaints are atrocious and there is a major ass covering culture.