LoveinTokyo - I am guessing you are under 30?
Wrong.
because believe me having just got a 100% mortgage on a flat in London that then halved in value - almost over night - was pretty shit. and then dealing for the next 5 years paying back the negative equity - equally shit.
I'm sure it was. I'm not saying no one else has ever had problems. My parents were in a similar situation at one point, but the value of their property eventually went up again, and they're now in a much stronger financial position than I am ever likely to be in, despite the fact that they've only ever had to live on one salary, and my own salary is now higher than my father's.
Do you pay for all of your child care or do you get some of it for free? decent maternity leave and paternity leave - where was that when I had babies? right to return to the same job?
I don't have kids yet. Largely because my husband and I have been trying to get into a more secure financial position before having them. I don't ever want to be in the position the OP is in. Just crossing my fingers and hoping that I don't have fertility problems when the time comes.
Oh, and I've moved so far away from my parents that free childcare is certainly never going to be an option.
Stop being such a snowflake and recognise that there have always been challenges with renting, with owning your own home, with living in London.
Oh, the "snowflake" jibe. How original.
and heres a grown up thing you could do - suggest how to make it better, how to improve the situation. My kids are grown up and it does really affect them. what I have tried to do on this thread is suggest ways to improve the situation, to try new things to be radical to take a different approach. have you?
Oh, I absolutely love this one.
I made my own personal situation better by living with my parents for a really really long time, doing a very long commute, having very little social life and putting a lot of money away each month for the future. (I fully realise that this option isn't available for everyone.) I've now moved abroad to a place where prices are still pretty high but my landlord is not legally allowed to put the rent up by more than a token amount each year (it just went up by 10 euros), and when we do get round to buying (which will hopefully be soon), things should be a little better than in London. But I have no realistic employment prospects in any other part of the country.
That's me, that's what I've done to help myself personally.
Do you mean to help the situation in general? Because I'm not really sure what can be done. Nobody with any political power seems remotely interested in easing the burden on young or poor people, and the baby boomers all vote Tory and will probably live for another 20 years.