I have no business having children.

[NotUmbongoUnchained]

Because I’m under 30.

According to the oh so wise man in the pub.

What the actual fuck, who thinks like that

Aibu to think he’s a weirdo one off or do lots of people have that opinion?!

Why wouldn’t you? It’s a bar at a pub, not in a nightclub. We have zero childcare as we’re expats- where we go, baby goes. And where baby goes, baby eats. What wrong with that?!

How did the comment come about?

My friend who was with them, asked me how the kids were. He then came out with “you have kids? More than one? You don’t look old enough!” I told him I was 27 and he cane out with “People have no business having kids before 30”

Is a baby drinking milk somehow more disgusting than a grown up drinking his fourth pint of beer?

whatshall you also sound delightful. Are you ok hun?

Breastfeeding at the bar, even in a pub? That's awfully rude, don't you have any self respect and try to find a more subtle place?

Some people should be embarrassed to behave that way.

I have taken all my kids with me whenever I went, but you can be a bit subtle about things.

Oh fuck off you weirdo

I think we’ll have to agree to disagree on the hypothetical breastfeeding situation. See, OP, the man was right! Probably if I’d had my baby over the age of 30 I’d know how to behave in public 😂

ikeepaforkinmypurse

Oh god, the idiocy...

That's awfully rude, don't you have any self respect and try to find a more subtle place?

Aye okay then

That's ridiculous. People usually say the other way around, for partly good reason to be fair giving the incredible risks

Ahaha! I was being so diplomatic and peaceful, @NotUmbongoUnchained

In answer to your OP, people are weird. Ignore. shrug Not worth spoiling your pub trip with nonsense! 😊

Some people come out with strange things. HE SHould mind his own business tho the gossipy old sweety wife

NotUmbongoUnchained
your language proves my point on what kind of people would find acceptable to breastfeed a baby at the bar.

I am guessing your are one of these mothers changing nappies on the table, and allowing your precious darlings to run around without supervision?

No wonder some pubs had to ban children because of people like you. Honestly, breastfeeding at the bar.. what's next? I would say in the pool, but it has already been done

Under 30 is the best time to have children medically. Yanbu.

I had 3 by 30

Wow, your husband sounds delightful. Does he often "deck" people?

That's awfully rude, don't you have any self respect and try to find a more subtle place?
Some people should be embarrassed to behave that way

Close competition for wankiest comment of the day. So hard to call tonight.

No one is actually breastfeeding at any bar- it was a suggestion by a pp! 🙄 Goodness.

*am guessing your are one of these mothers changing nappies on the table, and allowing your precious darlings to run around without supervision?

No wonder some pubs had to ban children because of people like you. Honestly, breastfeeding at the bar.. what's next? I would say in the pool, but it has already been done*

Your actually insane.

FYI, I’ve never actually taken either of my children to a pub. So no, I’m not one of those parents.

I didn’t breastfeed either 🤭

good grief
some people shouldn't be allowed to have kids, honestly.

Sadly a lot if people think that. I don't really see why they presume to have an oppiniin.

Where are these crazy assumptions even coming from?!

some people shouldn't be allowed to have kids, honestly

Why? Because I’m under 30? Or because I didn’t breastfeed? Or because I’ve never taken my kids to a pub?

I don’t understand your ire.

He then went on to tell me in graphic detail about how delivering his wife’s fifth baby nearly killed her. And how his one year old fell out of a first floor window.

I know I shouldn't have laughed, but...

I think Ikeepafork is trolling now 😊

I miss when trolls tried to be funny.

I’m reminded of when my friend told me I was “too f*cking young” to be getting married... three weeks after he attended my wedding. I was 24, hardly a child-bride! People love having opinions (me included, to be fair!). 😁